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confused as hell.


Question Posted Sunday February 5 2006, 2:51 pm

hey katie, i bet you can guess who this is.
but anyways i do need your opinion on what to do with my life. as you know i am going out with meagan and she cheated on me and i forgave her last year around december...but she is always hanging around other guys and it makes me feel like she still is cheating on me and all. i mean she is kinda of a slut, before i went out with her she already lost her virginity and gave like 5 guys BJ's. but still. i love her so much. but also ever month she like breaks up with me and brings me to pretty much crying then says she was joking about it all. and the wierd thing is shes really over protetive, for example, i was on the phone with my friend samii and i got off the phone and i called meagan and she asked whats up and i said i just got off the phone with a girl and she flipped out. and when she calmed down about five minutes later, i called her back and she was having cyber sex with some guy and acted like it was no big deal. shes got problems.. and to top this all off, im gay. i make out with my freind rob alot and he has sucked me before. but i would never have rob as my bf. and i still love meagan. ive told you most of this before but i never really did it at one time and asked for your help on it but i finally need help. should i break up with her, stop being gay, both, go out with someone else, or move to PA and go out with you?
so please help babe, thanks
(signed)
your not so secret admirer.


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L1FEwithoutLUST answered Sunday February 5 2006, 3:14 pm:
Dear Confused as hell,

First of all Earl, are you REALLY sure you are gay? Whenever I say stuff about that to you, I always get a "I'm not officially gay" answer. And most people don't just become gay, they are born like that and they are always attracted to the same sex. Think about what your friends would say and how they would treat you if they found out you were gay.

About Meagan, I say, dump her. Really, she sounds like a lunatic. Maybe a very pretty and sexual lunatic but one nonetheless. It's not fair that she cheated on you, and distrusts you around girls. You are the one who shouldn't trust her, and Earl I have known you for a while and I know what a great guy you are and really, I think you can do a whole lot better. Girl or guy. If you wanna know anything else, drop me another message.

Hope this Helps,
Katie <3

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