Hey, My name is Meagan and i am 15. I am 5 feet tall i'm a shrimp hehe. I love helping people and making them feel better in whatever I can. If you need any help please let me know!!
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I'm 16 and a junior in high school. I live with my mom and younger brother. I am involved in a lot of my high school's drama productions and am also a member of the dance team. My mom wants me to switch out of drama (she says it's making me miserable, but it's one of the few places I really enjoy myself) and she doesn't like my being on dance team, not because of grades, etc. just because it's her opinion. Anyway, I have had 8 drama performances, and she only went to three. One I was sick, , and then she left without picking me up because she said I was taking too long. My aunt made her come to one, and the third she went to see her friend's son. She refused to come to the only two performances I asked/begged her to (I had a lead role) and won't let me invite my dad.
My mom hasn't come to any of my dance performances and wouldn't because she'd have to leave work for 15 minutes. Her work is on the same block as my school so it's not like it's a long drive!
Freshman year I tried out for the school talent show ( a pretty big deal) and made it, but I told both my mom and dad about it. My mom found it I told my dad and wouldn't let me go. At 8:00 (the exact time the show started) she finally said I could go, but it was too late, I was supposed to be the first act. Sophomore year she wouldn't let me try out.
Now she wants to come to my next dance performance because I invited my dad, but she's trying to make me feel bad because she'd miss part of work. At this point it's not going to make a difference. I would have been thrilled two years ago, but now I don't want her to come. If I say that, she'll come just to piss me off. How can I make sure she won't come?
Sorry this is so long, but it's kind of complicated. Thank you if you actually read the whole thing. (link)
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Well babe, you need to talk to your mom. I know you have talked to her but I think if you make it 100% clear you ond;t want her to come and you tell her why, she might understand. I can never imagine what it feels like to be you right now, but I think you just need to talk to her and let her know what you think. Hope that helps and if you have any more questions just let me know k
Love Meg
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ok..i know that making out with just a friend is wrong..but i still want to. Not because i want to use him, i just want to learn how to make out. I've had a boyfriend but it was only for a couple of weeks and when we kissed, it was like kissing my mother. I just want to be less nervous for the next time i have a boyfriend, and i want to actually be able to know what im doing. My friend is single now and he knows how to make out. I was just wondering if yall thought it was still wrong. If you think it's fine, how can i convince my friend to help me out? (link)
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Well, if you want to practice with him I don't think it is wrong. The only thing that might be a problem, is if after practicing he thinks of you as more then a friend. My guess, is he would be happy to help you, but he might get hurt when he finds out that you just want to be friends. I think if you just talk to him and see what he thinks, you will be fine. Good luck xoxo
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okay so this might be very long and im sorry but i need some other peoples opinions on this.
so i used to live with my grandmother. for 13yrs then i moved in with my mom and dad only a few months ago and my school work was getting better but now i feel in the same situation as i dont feel like getting up to go or just cant be bothered trying anymore. my mom is ALWAYS at work and when she does finally come home she sits and does MORE work. its not that she has to because he job only requires her to work untill 6pm. my dad isnt working and hes hard to talk to everything is a joke to him and if you have an issue you can deal with it yourself cause its all in your head supposedly which yeah on some things i can agree but a lot of times i just wanna talk. im not allowed to go places therefore i dont have many friends I DO though have a long distance relationship and he makes me extreemly happy whenn ever i talk to him which is usually for the most part of the day after school till some1 has to eat dinner then on the phone again till bedtime or whenever we fall asleep on the phone. he has helped me with so many problems and i help him when hes down too but its not all helping we have an awesome time laughing and making jokes and just stupid stuff that no1 else would think is funny but were weird together so its good for us. :) yea so mostly im in my room from when i get home from school till when its time to go back (except for bathroom and to eat dinner and stuff) and im always sitting by myself and eating dinner and my mom is at work of course and my dad well if he eats in the same room as me,im just not used to talking to him so its weird and he doesnt make any effort to start a convo. i used to try to wait for my mom to get home for dinner but by that time i would have to be almost ready to get myself to bed in order to even try to wake up and go to school. my boyfriend (long dist thing.) of almost seven months now came so visit me with his mom and his grandmom and his brother and his mom and grandmom treated me like so nice! and they gave me a hug and stuff and i almost wanted to cry cause i never get that and his mom loves me and stuff and thats hard to get his mom to approve of any girl for her sons :) anyways i have a therapist and i was talking to her about all this and she thinks it would be good that maybe on school breaks i could get away from everything and go see him and his family and stuff which i would love because sometimes thats all i want is to just get away. ya know and be happy, but my mom wont even let me to the mall with friends cause shes "overprotective" and i dont see why because shes never there. and alex (my bf) and i were talking about all this and he thinks id be wayy better off if i was there with him and his family hes 16 and im 14 btw. but i know my momwould never let me because she thinks ill im gonna do or want is sex or something but im not i just want to be happy i hate feeling alone all the time it sucks. so like does anyone else think it would be a good idea or do you think im being selfish or anything because i dont want to be like that. also i think if i was able to move there i'd be eating better for one thing and my school work would improve tons cause id have some1 there to motivate me and everything and plus his mom is way nice to me and shes fine if i ever wanted to or could do that. but i just dont know. so if anyone knows anyway that i could make it possible cause arent i being sort of neglected? if my theapist person knew all this stuff wouldnt she like be able to let me go there or something?!? ahh im just, i dont know. i need help.
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thanks a lot if you ever get to the end of reading that sorry it was so long. (link)
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Well sweetie, you have one crazy life let me tell you. Life is too short to stay upset and not have fun. I think that your parents are being really unreasonable. They either need to pay way more attention to you and trust that you can go hang out with your friends, or they need to let you go with your boyfriend. He sounds like such a nice guy. If he and his family is what makes you happy and what you want in your life, I think this is what you need to tell your parents. Be honest wih them, because they at the least deserve to know how you feel. I also think if they don't let you go, you should have your boyfriends mom call and talk to them. Either her or your theorpist. Something needs to change babe, You don't deserve this. If you you need anymore help, or have any other questions, please ask me. I would love to help somone as sweet as you. XOXO
Love Meggs
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ok well here's the thing........ i really dont eat a lot.... i just don't have a stomach that can take in so much food.... however, my mom thinks that i dont eat so that i can loose weight so she makes me eat more, and now she's convinced that i'm doing this to loose wait because i got into this fight with this girl the other day and she called me fat.... but pleasee its not like i took it seriously, because i weigh 105 pounds, and i called her a horse-head, so w/e. but now she thinks i'm doing it to loose weight and she's wants to keep on feeding me and feeding me....she's even like checking my lunch when i come home to make sure i eat, what to do????? i just really don't eat a lot, and i told her, but she just doesn't get it
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Well sweetie, what I would tell your mom is that you want to talk to her. Tell her that you don't eat a lot because you just have a little stomache. What you might want to do is not eat just when she makes you but when you feel hungary. So she knows you are eating, write down everything you eat in one day. When she sees that you do eat, She will back off and chill. She is just worried about you, I mean she has a right to be, You're her daughter and she cares a lot about you. I hope I helped, and if you need anything else, let me know.
XOXOXOXOXO
Meggs
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I have a bump 'down there' but Ive already eliminated possibilities. Its not an STD like genital herpes - Im a virgin. Its not razor burn because I dont shave. It hurts when I touch it and I just noticed it maybe 3 days ago. Its the size of a pimple. Is it possible it could be a pimple? Im worried..What could it be? (link)
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Well it is a possibility that it is a pimple. it might be from the heat too because when you get to hot you can develope swet pimples.if you are worried about hun the you should go to your doctor and ask him/her about it. Hope i helped you
Love Shaylin
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so now since its getting hot, im starting to get really sweaty, and i keep getting teased because of these disguisting sweat stains under my arms. its embarrassing because i keep getting teased. what can i do to solve that problem? (link)
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Well hun, there are deodorants that are made to help resist this. They don't go away completly but they are not very visible. Also someting you could do would be to clean underthere everymorning with a stonger soap. These things should help a bunch. If you need anything else just let me know. Hope this helps!!
Love meggs
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My 12th year solor for dance class is coming up. I take tap and jazz. Are there any really cute songs that would be good for either one of them? I want something a little fastpaced. I'm 14 so I want something not too child-ish. (link)
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Well I have been dancing for about 13 years now and one song I love that would be an awesome song would be "Listen To Your Heart"
The is a great song to do a solo to. For a tap song now a good one would be"The Way You Move"
Those are awesome songs to do them to. You can also mix them up and they will still be great!!
Hope that helpes you hun!!
Love meggs
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Ok. Well, I got accepted into this private (boarding) school. Mercersburg. And I'm really excited about it. (I'll be in High School next year) So, at first I was a little hesitant because I was afraid of missing my friends. But now that I think about it more, I don't know how much I'll really miss my friends. Like, my good friends they kinda treat me like a third wheel. One of them had been my best friend since kindergarten and we used to get in a lot of fights (i never knew why. she just got mad at me.) And she usually ditched me for people she just met. It hurt me really badly, and thinking about it still hurts. This year she left me for one of my other friends. Whenever I'm with them seperately they're all right, but together it's like I'm not even there. They forget I exist. I feel like I'll miss my other friends more than them. I'm almost relieved to leave them and all the hurtful memories behind. I've always kinda been taken advantage of in my friendships and I try so hard to wait for them after class or things like that. But the actions are never returned. It really upsets me. Am I wrong to feel this way? I'm not really quite sure what I want advice on, but it's really been bothering me.
Thank You,
XOXO (link)
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Well hun, I can totally relate. I too, just got accepted into a private school. My friends also take advatage of me. I wait for them after class you know but they never do it back. What I have done to try to help with this is try talking to them. Ask them why they exclude you from things or why they don't treat you the same way. They might not even realize what they are doing until you say something. Just you know bring it up one day and you don't even have to do it with all of your friends. Just maybe the few you really would like to talk to. Remember hun I will always be here for you to talkt to if you need anymore advice or you just want to talk. Let me know how things go. Hope I helped you hun!!!!!
Love meggs
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what are the signs of depression?
all answers get a 5 (if its not horribly bad..lol jk) (link)
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Well one sign of depression is you want to sleep a lot. You also can lose interest in things you like to do. Another way you can tell you have depression is if you lose your appearance. You might not care about how you look like anymore. Sometimes this may vary but some people lose weight and others might gain it. Some people tend to withdraw from their normal routine. Hope I helped you!! If you need anymore advice feel free to send something to my inbox.
Love Meggs
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in spanish, what does papi chulo mean?
i know what papi means but i dont know about papi chulo. please dont like this up on an online translator becuase i dont want the spain language i want the puertorican language because im puertorican (link)
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Well as far as I can tell it means "cute boyfriend." All my friends speak spanish and they all said that is what it means so I hope that is what you were looking for!!
Love meggs
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I am looking for some advice on what to do about this situation. I am in my mid 20's and have a friend who lives with her boyfriend. She pays about 80 percent of all the bills-and works two jobs to do it. The problem is taht her boyfriend is always putting her down and calling her names. There have been a cople of times where he completely explodes at her for some stupid reason and they get into a huge fight where she ends up crying. This happened the other night and she let it out that he has hit her before. After these kinds of fights I have the usual talk with her and tell her that she needs to get rid of him, that she can do better, and doesn't deserve this treatment. The thing is, the next day she will act like nothing has happened and it's never mentioned again.
The thing is, I really don't know what my place is in all of this. My mom said I should mind my own business and that it must not bother her if she hasn't left in the 3 years they have been together and my brother said I should just leave so I don't end up getting hurt. But this is my best friend and I hate to just sit by and see her put up with this. I can't believe that she can just forgive him for how he acts because I certainly can't and it just makes me seem like a jerk! What should I do? (link)
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Well hun, in these kind of situations all you really can do is be her friend. Be there for her when she needs you and listen to what she has to say. Then when she asks something like what should I do or help me, something of that nature tell her your opinion. That can not hurt anyone and your then are not butting into her personal life. She might not listen the first couple of times you tell her this, but if this happens often she will get sick of this relationship and fighting and take your advice. All you can do right now is just be there for her and help her in her times of need. Please if you need anymore advice or just would like to talk about things, feel free to send something to my inbox. Hope I helped you!!
Love meggs
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Alright. Well. I Found Out In The Beginning Of The Year That My One Friend Alicia Said Something Pretty Hurtful About Me To Our Other Friend Jasmine. Well, Alicia Said Something About My Weight && It Was Mean. I Didn't Bring It Up Then Because I Was Too Embarassed && Stuff. But, Should I Just Forget About It? Or Bring It Up Now (Not Like Get Mad, But Ask Her About It)? Or Is It Too Late && I Just Should Let It Go? I'll Rate && Give Feedback. Thanks! (link)
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Well hun, If you were hurt by the comment she made ask her about it. Try not to accuse her of it but just say someone or a few people (but don't mention who) said they heard you say this. If she says no I would trust her unless you believe it is true about what she said. Trust your heart and it will tell you what to believe and do. If you need anymore advice please feel free to send me something in my inbox!! Hope I helped you
Love meggs
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13/f I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now. I looked at his buddy profile and he had "Just the Girl" lyrics and "I Love You(insertmyname)!!" under it.
It was soo sweet. Since I finally got my aim to work im setting up my profile and I want to do the same kind of thing but I want (of course) a different song. I cant think of any off the top of my head, so could someone please tell me some songs that would tell my bf how much I love him to put up on my buddy profile??
I rate 5s
Thanks!! (link)
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Well here are some songs that I think would be perfect for something like this:
"Blessed The Broken Road" by Rascal Flatts
"Start of Something New" by High School Musical soundtrack
"What I've been Looking For" by High School Musical soundtrack
also the last one I think would be great is
"With You" by Jessica Simpson
If you need any of these lyrics you can go to
http://www.lyricsmine.com
Hope I helped you hun!! GOOD LUCK
Love Meggs
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my problem is pretty simple, but i think that one wrong move in it will make everything fall apart. ok, so, this is my story. december last year, a day after one of our school dance, a friend of mine told me that my crush wanted to ask me to dance and then ask me out. my crush didn't but i e-mailed him saying that i like him and i was hoping that we would still stay good friends even with thte whole crush thing. i did this because after the day of the dance, me and my crush barely talked which is very unlikely because we always talked. that's why i e-mailed him. nowadays, it's been improving between us. i can still feel a tension between us, but i'm glad it's still improving. but just yesterday, the same friend that told me that my crush wanted to ask me out IMed me saying that he heard from somebody that my crush was gonna ask me out by the end of this week. i was really happy, but at the same time, i didn't want to keep my hopes up, because if he doesn't ask me out, it'll just hurt more. what should i do around my crush now? i mean, i'm trying to keep it normal between us, but sometimes i just don't know what to do. what do you think?
thanks for helping! (link)
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Well hun, what I would do is just act the same. Just act like you havn't herd anything from anybody and maybe it will make him feel more comfertable around you. I could be wrong but I think the guy who is telling you things about your crush might be playing with you because he knows you like him a lot. Just first try acting like nothing is going on and then maybe he will lossen up a little bit. If this works send something to my inbox to let me and. Also you can send me something if you need anymroe advice about this situation or anything else. Hope I helped you!!!!
Love Meggs
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This sounds like a stupid question but is there any way to make your hair grow faster?
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One way that I learned makes your hair grow faster is by brushing it in the shower.Everytime you take a shower brush your hair. It will take out all your dead hairs and everytime you lose one, two more new ones grow in. Hope I helped you!!!
Love meggs
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ok my problem is i have liked this girl for a really long time and i dated her 4 like 3 days then i called her 1 day and she handed the phone 2 her sis and her sis told me she said it was over but then a couple days later she called me and told me that she was really sorry that she mad a HUGE mistake and she wishes that she could rewind time then we had a very long talk about some stuff and she is sayin that i understand her like no1 else does and that she has never had any1 understand her like me. and we got back together and now she is bein all sweet and sayin she really loves me and she thinks that it is really TRUE love but how do i kno if she really means it or not? please can someone help me? (link)
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Well, if she was a big enough person to call you back and tell you straight up that she made a huge mistake and ask you to forgive her, she totally loves you. If you neer mant anything to her she never would have called you back and been all sweet to you like she is now. I think she does truely love you and wants you to forgive her. Just enjoy being with her and have an awesome time with her!! Hope I helped you
Love meggs
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who sings that song that goes "Sara beth is scared to death" i dont know the rest...
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Oh my gosh, that is my favorite song of all time. It is actually called "Skin" and it is by Rascal Flatts. Oh yes and if you would like to know the lyrics go to http://www.lyricsmine.com/.
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Ok so I finally did it with my boyfriend. We have been going out for about 6 months now. It was my first time and he said it was his first time also. Now that we have had sex that is all he wants to do. And I'm not down with it. I've told him before but he doesn't listen and keeps trying. What should I do to get it in his head? (link)
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Well hun, tell him you are not wanting to do it that much. Tell him you want to make that a romantic thing and not all the time. Explain to him you love him and enjoy his company you just want to wait a while before you do it again. Hope I helped you!!
Love Meggs
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Is there anyway to get my hair thicker? I'll rate 5's for anything (link)
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Well besides all the hair care products everyone else said when you are in the shower, comb or brush out your hair. It will take out all of your dead hairs and for everyone you lose you gain two new ones. This will make your hair thicker.
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hey!! ok, i really need help. I like this guy. ALOT. and my friends said that he probably likes me because he stares at me sometimes and gives weird signs that he likes me. The Problem: I have never talked to him. He is VERY shy so he won't talk to me, but i'm shy also. I want to talk to him but i dont want to be ackward and i want to maybe even become friends with him. I just want to get to know him, and become closer to him but i dont want him to think im weird. please help me, what can i do?
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Well if you just want to get to know him I would ask him if he would maybe like to talk sometime. If he would then just sit by each other and ask some questions you are wondering. Even though you both are shy you could ask him like do you have any siblings? pets? things like that. Get to know him and let me know how it goes. Hope that helps ya hun!!!
Love Meggs
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