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what should i do around my crush?
my problem is pretty simple, but i think that one wrong move in it will make everything fall apart. ok, so, this is my story. december last year, a day after one of our school dance, a friend of mine told me that my crush wanted to ask me to dance and then ask me out. my crush didn't but i e-mailed him saying that i like him and i was hoping that we would still stay good friends even with thte whole crush thing. i did this because after the day of the dance, me and my crush barely talked which is very unlikely because we always talked. that's why i e-mailed him. nowadays, it's been improving between us. i can still feel a tension between us, but i'm glad it's still improving. but just yesterday, the same friend that told me that my crush wanted to ask me out IMed me saying that he heard from somebody that my crush was gonna ask me out by the end of this week. i was really happy, but at the same time, i didn't want to keep my hopes up, because if he doesn't ask me out, it'll just hurt more. what should i do around my crush now? i mean, i'm trying to keep it normal between us, but sometimes i just don't know what to do. what do you think?
thanks for helping!
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Talk to HIM and ask him if he is going to ask you out. The tension will be gone once he does, and you two can just be BF & Gf. The friend could be lying just to get your hopes up, or your crush could have learned how it hurt you last time and might be really doing it. You just need to talk to him.
♥Kendall
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I think listening to what your friends are saying is really messing you up and hurting you , you never know who will lie to you for what. You need to talk 2 your crush tell him what youo were told and ask him how he feels tell him how you feel in an email its the only way HONESTY jsut come strait out with everything and ask him if everything is true...
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Either your friends are making things up or they are hearing people make things up and telling you about it.
It sounds to me like if you want something more with this guy then you'll have to make the move. And when you sent that e-mail, that was a move. Did he ever respond to the e-mail?
You should ask a friend to ask him how he feels about you. That way, you know for sure that it's coming straight from him and not just your friend who heard it from god knows who.
You can also just tell him what you've been hearing. Say, "hey, my friends keep telling me that you are planning on asking me out and it never happens, are these just rumors?" and see what he says about that. Rejection is a scary thing, but I think you'd rather know the truth now than be stuck not knowing at all.
If you don't want to move to the next step and keep it a friendship, then keep it a friendship. Like I said, you are the one left to make a move if you want something more.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well hun, what I would do is just act the same. Just act like you havn't herd anything from anybody and maybe it will make him feel more comfertable around you. I could be wrong but I think the guy who is telling you things about your crush might be playing with you because he knows you like him a lot. Just first try acting like nothing is going on and then maybe he will lossen up a little bit. If this works send something to my inbox to let me and. Also you can send me something if you need anymroe advice about this situation or anything else. Hope I helped you!!!!
Love Meggs
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