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hey!! ok, i really need help. I like this guy. ALOT. and my friends said that he probably likes me because he stares at me sometimes and gives weird signs that he likes me. The Problem: I have never talked to him. He is VERY shy so he won't talk to me, but i'm shy also. I want to talk to him but i dont want to be ackward and i want to maybe even become friends with him. I just want to get to know him, and become closer to him but i dont want him to think im weird. please help me, what can i do?
thanks ♥
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Well if you just want to get to know him I would ask him if he would maybe like to talk sometime. If he would then just sit by each other and ask some questions you are wondering. Even though you both are shy you could ask him like do you have any siblings? pets? things like that. Get to know him and let me know how it goes. Hope that helps ya hun!!!
Love Meggs
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i think you should just make randomly start talking to him one day.. like maybe since your shy to have you and your friend just stand near him and start a random conversation about something really funny but weird and then he will probably get interesting and start talking to you guys and just take over. like talk about what you were before but then slowly ease into a different conversation.. that should take away the ackwardness and you will be able to just go up and talk to him yourself regularly.. that it doesnt work the first time just keep trying that approach. if you see it going no where you can always just ask him something like hey do you have Mrs. (so & so) blah blah.. hah you should get what im saying. but that should help a lot to start talking more =] hope i helped ♥
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Aw. Well you know that in this situation YOU have to be the one that has to talk to him, because obviously he won`t. Be confident. If you have a class with him, go up to him for help, even if you have friends around you. He`ll probably get a clue that you really wanted to talk to him when you can even ask your friends about something. Get what i`m saying??
If you don`t have a class with him & your friends with one of his friends, ask your friend to introduce you to him..even if he knows your name. Or just be around your friend when he/she`s talking to the guy you like.
This situation that your in is actually quite simple. But you just too nervous[which is cute] to talk to this boy. Just get the courage to talk to him. I MEAN, THIS GUY CAN BE THE ONE YOUR GOING TO BE MARRIED TOO!! :] I like to think that way. ♥
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Hmm, next time you see him in the hallway or something just say hey. Do you have any classes with him? Pass him a note or something saying you like his shoes or something. Just, little things to get conversations started. Or, if you see him anytime that you can talk to him instead of passing notes. Don't be afraid to talk to him, its always alright to make new friends.
Good Luck! Hope I helped!
-Brina
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aWww,Well if you have classes together with him you could say "hey so and so i need help with this (whatever your doing)" or "hey so and so what was last nights homework?" something like that.If you have a friend whoses friends with him,they could ask him to hang out this weekend with his friends and your friends,friends (which would include you of course ; ])Or just strike up a conversation with him anything.I know its hard being that both of you are shy,but trust me its dont as bad as it seems if you start talking to him first,most guys prefer when the girls makes the first move.Like when i was in 8th grade i liked this guy that sat next to me in science class,we didnt talk for about a month until i said sometime(and believe me i was VERY shy in middle school)and i said that i needed help on a question and he helped me out,we starting talking and we hit if off i never got to go out with him though because he had a girlfriend lol but it never hurts to just say something ANYTHING.He wont think your weird hun trust me,i think hell like it if you start talking to him.If he stares at you alot with maybe a little smirk or smile on his face its a sign he might like you,i dont know what signs he has given you but im sure theres a possibility that he likes you.Flirt with him a little lol I hope things work out for you hun! leave another in my inbox if you need more help! im sure youll do fine ; ]
♥ danielle
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Since you're shy, that might stand in your way just a little bit. However, I do have a great site that'll maybe let you come out of your shyness. I highly suggest looking at this website; [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) I'm pretty sure it'll help you out, a lot. It's not going to work, just like that. You should be able to work on this shyness stuff, though. Then when you're do see him, you'll be comfortable around him and will be able to talk, without being shy.
As for him being shy, of course he's going to be shy around the girl he is crushing on. But, once he get's talking to you and more comfortable with you around, he'll be able to be himself. You just have to give it a little time and some work. But, he will come around, I'm sure of it.
I suggest getting a group together; your friends and his friends. This way you'll both be comfortable since you guys have your friends around. That way, you'll be able to act yourselfs and not be so shy around one another. ♥
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