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Ok so I finally did it with my boyfriend. We have been going out for about 6 months now. It was my first time and he said it was his first time also. Now that we have had sex that is all he wants to do. And I'm not down with it. I've told him before but he doesn't listen and keeps trying. What should I do to get it in his head?
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Well hun, tell him you are not wanting to do it that much. Tell him you want to make that a romantic thing and not all the time. Explain to him you love him and enjoy his company you just want to wait a while before you do it again. Hope I helped you!!
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Just say you're not in the mood. Warn him before you hang out that you don't want to do it. It's probobly the first few times, eventually he'll get tired and do it once a week.
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yhea once a boy has sex the 1st time they seem to go thru a stage of constant arousal. this is just my opinion of course, but i will say this, sex should not be had at all if your not ready for it. now im not saying this is going to happen with you guys, but i feel it should be mentioned, ive actually seen a guy who'd just lost his try to get some outside of his girlfriend after theyd had sex an she no longer wanted to. the problem with having sex with a virgin guy is that if your not ready for a sexual relationship it really shouldent be started,alot of boys who lose thier virginity go thru this, it lasts about a year because around there its still great but its not new. i think you should stand your ground and not do it again untill your ready, if he cares about you hell wait, WITHOUT pressuring you. if he cant overcome his hormones and wait for you then hes really not worth your time.
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yahh what the other person said.
sex isn't the whole relationship && if he can't understand that, well then hes not right for you. anyways it would help to know how old you were..but its okayy.
maybe you can write him a note/letter explaining how you feel if you really want the relationship to work. maybe since he thinks he got it once that you'll give in and do it again. maybe he doesn't know exactly why you do'nt want to. its hard to drill things into these sex driven guys.
sry thts all i got
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Tell him you feel very uncomfortable with it all the time. Tell him there is more to a relationship than sex. Tell him if he loves you he would not pressure. If he still tries to pressure you to have sex than I think you need to split from him. Not necessary break up but split. If he than co-operates good. If he still wont break it up. Your not worth a sex craved man,. Sex is good but there is much much more to a relationship than just sexual fulfillment. Hope this helps
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