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Q: hey ummm this might be long.... ok this guy i really like asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity to him....and i was like asking him questions like if we would ever go out and he said he didnt know maybe.... and he also doesnt want anyone to know about it...which i can see that to because i dont want it getting around school either but i have the feeling that he doesnt like me and he just wants to lose his virginity....but i dont know. and like after we talked about doing it around his birthday and then like all of a sudden he asks my best friend out and im like OMG... and they went out for a couple of days........ but i havent talked to him about it anymore because i havent got the chance to... but i dont think he likes me anymore... so does anyone have any advice?
--->confused

don't do it girl! its not worth it and don't you want your first time to be beautiful and magical and special? he's just looking for some goodies and i think you would be very ignorant if you did do that with him.

Q: hi
i was just wondering what way i could get hollister & abercombie type of rips in my pants. like me doing them my self?
thanxx a bunchhh

dude, why don't you just buy the pants from abercrombie or hollister? it makes the world so much easier for everyone! haha but i would get a cool pair of jeans and then grab scissors and cute the tears from an angle. thanks for asking

Q: like i have super thick hair. and its pretty long to it takes me like 1hour and a 1/2 to straighten it is it bad to straighten your hair like twice a week? what does it do? my friend told me that she straighted it like twice a week and now it is easier to straighten. is that true?

Well actually it doesn't make it easier, but it is better to straighten it twice a week because it can damage your hair if you straighten it everyday. TRhere are chwmicxals that can make your hair straight but if your hair os still wavy a little then its stioll easier to straighten but idk. I wassh my hair every other day and straighten it and my hair is very thick but idk i think it woul;d be worth a try to try the chemicals ki mean what do you have to lose? iight well thanks for asking bye

Q: Listen, I switched churches, and I met this really hot blonde girl there. We hung out at a lock-in, and it felt like she was totally digging me. That happened about 3-4 months ago. I talked about her on my xanga, and she pretty much rejected me without me asking. We talked off and on, and we recently started talking on the phone. She apparently thought I was going to ask her out, and we got into this conversation about the whole thing, and she basically told me to wait. Then on her xanga she said that she just flirts a lot and not to be led on. I still feel like there's something there though, or maybe its just me wanted to get with her. I really need helpt with this. Do I purssue? Or do I wait? I just have no idea what to do.

I personally think you should wait. If you ask her out and she rejects you, then it will embarassing for the both of you. Luckily, you guys still talk on the phone. That is a good sign. Hopefully, more will come out from that.

Q: I like the most popular guy in school. It really sucks because obviously he won't ask me out. What do I do? I mean we flirt a lot and he constantly stares at me in the one class we have together but you know how shallow middle schoolers are. Helppp.

Well, you should try making the first move. If not, probably nothing will happen. But, make sure yoi are reading him correctly,Does he use your name alot, does he smile at you, does he say hi in the hallways? If not then i think you guys have some more work to do. Try to talk to him more, but not too much or you will scare him.
Good luck!

Q: i missed the finale of beauty and the geek last night, anyoyne know who one? easy 5's! xx

Cher and Josh won. To win, the guys had to answer personal questions and the girls had to match the answers and vice versa. They had to go into double overtime to win. One of the questions that they asked josh was, what is one secret that only you and your partner know. He said "the size of Wes's penis." I found that very funny. lol

Q: So there's this guy that I'm best friends with. And we've been friends since 4th grade, so we know each other really well. Well, I like him. A lot. I really want to go out with him. Last night at the school dance we slow danced together and now everyone thinks we're going out. And I could tell he enjoyed dancing with me. I mean I would just ask him out but there's more. Two of my other friends like him. One likes him a lot and I'm afarid to tell her I like him (even though she was one of the people that got us to dance). The other one only likes him a little and knows I like him, and, frankly, doesn't care (as in she wouldn't be mad if we went out). But I still don't want anyone to be mad at me. What do I do? Thanks.

OMG! The same thing happened to my friend!!! [haha i wonder why ]

So you should so ask him out! like on monday like soon!!!!! If you are to shy to then umm me and kik can do it cuase like kik and i are in his homeroom and kik is like his biffle so yea. Please do it!!

Q: Well lately my armpits have been getting SO sweaty. It's pretty cold where I am an i don't know why they're like that? And if they stay like that I don't know what I'm gonna do wearing tee's in the summer. So I have a couple questions:

Does shaving your pits help them not sweat as much?

Is there any deoderant that works for it? (Only answer if you've TRIED it though)

Thanks so much!

I'm not sure about shaving them, but if need a good deoderant i would recommend certain dry. It works very well and helps a lot of people take control of their sweating problem. Hope I helped!

Also, if the problem is really really bad, you could get botox injected into your armpits. That stops the sweating for a while.

Q: hey i need major help on getting a new screen name and i was just wondering if you could help me..
my name is kaela but a lot of my friend call me kay
im in dance
i have a boyfriend named ed
i love the color pink
i like to shop at hollister & abercrombie
i hope this helps you! thanks a lot

here are some :

kay x3 ed
kay danca4life
pinkypookay
hollister kay
abermousse kay (haha thats dumb)
kay and ed 4ever4sho
edieluv3r
dancerchick
eddies girlx
danca fo sho
kay say hi
kay hottiexX
kaya say heya
kaya saya heya
seagull babex
betty babe
supa dance freak
supa dance babe
xoxoxEdxoxox
i lov3 ed
kaya luvs edya
ho_llister (haha)
hollistersurfx3
dancehollister89
latin chica x
Jewish babe x
bella italiana x
french poodle thang x
irish honey x
indian sweetie x
canadian hottie x
Sexy nazi x
preppy girlie

hope you find some you like!!!!

my friend ash helped me lol

Q: is there any way to delete a web address from the thing you type the web site in(sorry cant think of the name)

will rate high! thanks for any help

Well, if you have AOL go to "settings" and then click on "toolbar settings" than click "clear history trail". The only problems with that is that it will clear all of the over websites but you can get them back by visiting them. Hope I helped! ♥

Q: Well i cannot figure out how to comment someone on myspace, well i get how to comment, just not how to comment a picture. Can someone please tell me easy steps to do so? thanks alot! i will rate any answer that works

OK to insert a picture in the comment you need to upload it to photobucket.com and then click on the button that says get URL code that copy that into the comment. yea thats it lol

Q: ok, so i bought those leggings that go down like, halfway through your shins that im gunna wear with mini skirts. but i dont know what shoes to wear with them. im in 7th grade, so i deffinatly dont want to wear pumps to school, but i cant think of any other shoes to wear that would look good besides these flats i have, but they give me wiked bad blisters.plus they wont match much. so i was wondering if sneakers would look good. i have white low top air forces.
thanks

I think they look best with uggs or those cute little slip on uggs. Hope I helped!

Q: what events are held at the olympics , not just the winter sports.

Here are the ones that I know:

Winter:
Luge
Bobsled
Skeleton
Ice Dancing
Figure Skating
Alpine Skiing
Ski Jump
Aerial Freestyle Skiing
Slalom
Biatholon
Cross COuntry Skiing
Snowboarding
Snowboarding Cross
Halfpipe Snowboarding
Ice Hockey
Curling
Speed Skating

http://www.torino2006.org/ENG/OlympicGames/home/index.html

Summer:

Summer sports:

Winter sports:

Aquatics
Archery
Athletics
Badminton
Baseball
Basketball
Boxing
Canoe / kayak
Cycling
Equestrian
Fencing
Football
Gymnastics
Handball
Field Hockey
Judo
Modern Pentathlon
Rowing
Sailing
Shooting
Softball
Table Tennis
Taekwondo
Tennis
Triathlon
Volleyball
Weightlifting
Wrestling

http://www.olympic.org/uk/sports/programme/index_uk.asp?SportCode=HO
Hope I helped! ♥

Q: I think that somebody is signing on IM using my screen name. two people have said i said things that i know i never said. they have said i used swear words and have been very rude to them. which i know ive never done. i unlinked all of my sns and deleted my buddy lists so this person could not antaganize any of my friends. i have also signed on another sn that no one know about and kind of been monitoring weather someone signs on using my sn or not. i want to be safe and make sure this person wont do anything more. any ideas?

also -- i had a dream the other night about someone hacking my screen name, does this mean something?

DO have any enemies or ex-friends? Someone may be trying to get back at you for something you did to them. If you know of someone like this, you should confront them about it. If worse comes to worse than you can delete this s/nand get a new one. Good luck!

Q: Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

Why don't you get his screenname and talk to him online. To make it less awkward you and your friends could start a big chat room and invite him in. Just start talking to him more, like simple conversations. And when you see him in the hallway, smile at him or say hi. Soon you guys will become friends and maybe he will ask you out. good luck!

Q: Well, I don't mean to sound conceited but a lot of people come up to me and say they like me, but it's always these guy's friends that like me. Is there something wrong with me that the guy who likes me can't come up to me and say it himself? Why is it always their friends?

They are probably shy to do it themself. They like you alot but they are worried about you rejecting them so they send their friends to do it. A lot of pwoplw in my school do that. As they get older they will probably grow out of it. Hope I helped! ♥

Q: I have to do a community service project for school and I can't think of anything to do. People are already doing the whole nursing home scene; and like donating stuff to charity. Anyone got any clever ideas? Thank kiddos =]

Try doing stuff like collecting foods, clothes, toys, and books for the needy.

Or you can voleenter at a soup kitchen,homeless shelter, or a shelter for battered women.

Good luck!

Q: if i realli like this guy is it wrong to ask him out??

It's the 21st centure and I think girls should ask out guys too. Don't be afraid just make it casual and friendly. If he says no , don't get all sad, just say o well thats ok.

It's his loss
Good luck!

Q: hey everyone! im going to the ortho tonight to get my ties on my braces changed you know? well i had hot pink - total mistake. it drew too much attention to my mouth ahha. what color is the best to get? thanks!

OK first of all never ever ever get clear or yellow! It's just turns gross after a while. And definitly don't get red or black so I think the best would be a nice light green or blue. Maybe even a violet color. Good Luck! ♥

Q: ok i was using this little electronic razor thingy to comb out my eyebrows so theyll look neat. The thing was off. I was doign it for a while and then i wasnt paying attention and accidently turned it on WHILE IT WAS ON MY EYEBROW now theres a lil blank spot it the middle of my eyebrow- is there any way i can cover it up? please help a.s.a.p ♥anonymous

I did that too. hehe What you need to do is get an eyebrow pencil that is the same color as your eyebrows, and you should use short little strokes to fill in the blank spot. Good Luck!