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hey ummm this might be long.... ok this guy i really like asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity to him....and i was like asking him questions like if we would ever go out and he said he didnt know maybe.... and he also doesnt want anyone to know about it...which i can see that to because i dont want it getting around school either but i have the feeling that he doesnt like me and he just wants to lose his virginity....but i dont know. and like after we talked about doing it around his birthday and then like all of a sudden he asks my best friend out and im like OMG... and they went out for a couple of days........ but i havent talked to him about it anymore because i havent got the chance to... but i dont think he likes me anymore... so does anyone have any advice?
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alright if your confused about this... why would you ever want to lose your virginity to him?!?!? he seems like an real jerk. dont do it... theres much better guys than him.
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don't have sex with him! really, sex IS a HUGE deal, and if you don't love him and he doesn't love you its seriously not right. just wait until you find someone that wants to actually be in a relationship with you, not just having sex with you.
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don't do it girl! its not worth it and don't you want your first time to be beautiful and magical and special? he's just looking for some goodies and i think you would be very ignorant if you did do that with him.
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If this guy really liked you, he wouldn't have cared if you wanted to lose your virginity to him. He would respect your decision; that you don't want to. If he just wants you for sex, he probably has little or no respect for you or your feelings.
If he REALLY and TRULY liked you, he would continue to like you, even if you wouldn't lose your virginity to him.
He isn't worth your time. Try to get over him. I know it's hard, but time heals most wounds.
Don't mope around. Hang out with your friends. Take up a new hobby. Do what you love. Sooner or later, you'll realize that you're better off without this guy.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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Honestly, it sounds like he just wants a piece with no strings attached. It sounds like he's using the fact you like him to convince you to give up your virginity. If you give in, you'll be setting yourself up for a heartbreak. My advice would be to tell him no, you're not interested, and then stay away from him. There are plenty of great guys out there who will like you without you having to put out.
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What do you need advice about? The guy is an idiot. He didn't ask you out, he was embarrassed by the very idea, and all he did ask you was if you would sleep with him.
Then he asked out your friend. Why on earth would he do that if he was interested in you?
Follow your gut instinct. He was never really interested in you. He wanted to get laid. I can't imagine why you even want to talk to him anymore, there is nothing he can say to make his behavior okay or even make sense.
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All I can say is you may really like this guy but remember your virginity is very special. Once it is gone that is it. So you need to be very careful about who you give it to. I wouldn't give your virginity to anyone unless you are in love with that person, in a relationship with them and you know they love you too. Don't just go giving your virginity up to anyone. Especially if it is just someone you like and someone who probally doesn't like you back. At least not in the same way you like him. So think long and hard about your decisions. And I am assuming you are young and still in school so make sure you are truly ready to give up your virginity. HUGS Fiesty
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