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whats the matter?
I'm a 14 yr old girl and I like a boy who is 16 he likes me back and everything we flirt, hug, and we are really cool with each other everything is great. Everyone thinks he's my boyfriend and I want him to be and I know he likes me as much as I like him but I don't know whats wrong. He doesn't act funny and he doesn't have a girlfriend on the side or nothing I just don't know why we aren't together and so does everyone else. Can you please give me some advice or thoughts on what you think is wrong when everything seems so right?
~KookieMonster96~
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maybe he's just getting to know you better before he wants to actually ask you to be his gf. like with me, i moved to a new state in june and when school started i didn't think i'd find a guy. but i found one *hes a senior and i'm sophomore* he liked me and as i got to know him i liked him. we were always with eachother and people would always make comments about us *good ones*. eventually i found out that he had been calling me his gf to all his friends but didn't tell me because he didn't know if i felt the same way but i did. in the end things didn't work out with us and it might have been cuz hes leaving for college or maybe he just thought we were too different. but the point is, just give him his time and see what ends up happening
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ok KookieMonster96...maybe he's not ready for any commitments like having a girlfriend...maybe he's been hurt in the past by a girl and is taking safety precautions to make sure it doesn't happen again...he might be afraid that once you start dating that it won't work out for one reason or another...talk to him about it ask him if he wants to have a relationship and if he doesn't then don't force it...he might just be nervous to ask you out
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modelkate11
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well first of all theres nothing wrong with you. He just dosent understand. I would say that the best thing to do is have a freind ask whats up with you two. Like is he your boyfreind or not. If he says no then have them ask him why not. find out whats going on. If he says yes then way to go girl. Just remeber that you shouldnt change for a guy. If he doesnt like you the why you are then hes not the guy for you. good luck.
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The only way you are going to know the answer to that is to be honest with him and talk to him about it. Maybe he is afraid that things are fine the way they are now with you two just being friends but if you started dating it may ruin your friendship. That is a possibility but again the only way to know the real truth about this is to talk to him about it. Just be honest, be yourself, be patient and don't be too pushy. If he really does like you he shouldn't have any problems talking to you about this. Good luck. Hugs Fiesty
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