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i think i'm pregent
14/f.. I had sex with my boyfreind about 3 or 4 weeks ago and the condom broke!! I took 3 pregnency tests without my parents knowing and they were all positve!! so i think i'm pregent how could i tell my parents? HELP
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God you're only 14. I hate people like this. Anyways, for your advice:
-talk to your parents; just sit down with them whenever you're ready (but not too late); if you don't feel comfortable...
-talk to someone you trust such as your physician.
That's really all you can do for now.
Good Luck
And no matter what you do, do NOT have an abortion.
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First of all u shudnt ov had sex...
My advice is sit them down quietly and tell them or if you dont want to tell them face to face then how about writing them a letter and leaving it in a place which u no tht they will find it...
Or tell someone you trust e.g a teacher.
Good luck n keep in touch
x-baybee-kate-x
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well sit down w/ your parents tell them that your not joking around or anything and than tell them your pregnate and what you plan on doing such as abortion adoption or keeping the kid. Just be calm about it and maybe they'll be calm to
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you really shouldnt of had sex in the first place but it happened already so theres no need to hear that.. well, tell your mom, this subject cant wait for until youre ready because since you already know youre pregnant, your mom is the best person to help you, seriously. good luck ;)
-beckss
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First off, I'd kind of ignore some of the advice you've been given. If someone tyyyypeezzzzz like thisss, then it gives them away as being immature. I wouldn't take advice from a 13 year old on this topic.
Well, it is quite likely that you are pregnant. I would recommend talking to maybe one parent at a time, as it will be easier to handle.
Research your options! DO NOT DISCOUNT ABORTION BECAUSE IT IS AGAINST THE MORALS OF OTHERS! It is very hard on a woman's body, especially if she is as young as you are, to carry a baby to term, and it would mean interrupting your schooling AND showing up to school pregnant. You should talk to a doctor about how much harm it would do to your body if you did decide to give birth.
If you do decide to carry the baby to term, I would likely recommend adoption, since it would be very hard on you and the child to raise it yourself... and you want to do what is best for the child.
Have you told your boyfriend? You should probably let him know, if you haven't already. It is his right and his responsibility to know what has happened.
Pretty much, you have to make decisions for yourself. In the end, consider everyone's advice, but make a decision that YOU are comfortable with, whether it be abortion, adoption, or keeping the child.
Good luck, and be strong :)
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Tell mom first && let her tell your dad..
You shouldn`t wait too long but you need to figure out what to do..
Maybe go to the doctor first too double double check..
Most likely the test is right tho,Very rarely are they wrong..
♥Dez
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plan a family a dinner. and ask them hows life and whats going on and when they ask you "what about you" just be like well i think i might be pregnant and they pick up your drink and look at the table. and make sure theyre in a good mood. when you tell them.
my advice is not to get an abortion because in my point of veiw its murder. unless you get tested and theres going to be something wrong with it. then i suggest you do because no one wants to grow up being deformed paralyzed or with down syndrome.
decide if you want to keep it or give it up for adoption. and then let your parents know what your decision it. tell them your sorry for disapointing them and you feel really bad but you would appreciate it if they respected your decision because you could really use there support help and advice but you dont want them to make this decision for you.
it always helps if your crying cause theyll know that your really sorry and you really care.
hope i helped.
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wellll, first of all, idk why you even did have sex. 14 years old is veryyyy young! you shouldve at least waited till you were in college or at least married. being married would probably be the best time. anywayzz... whatever you do...
DONT GET AN ABORTION!!! or else i will hate you forever. well, i dont even know you so... just tell your parents. they will get over it... eventually. i mean they HAVE to. if you want get advice from a counselor. they know more than you might think! and dont put the baby up for adoption. first of all, it costs a TON of money, and well, yeaa! just keep the baby! or just give it to your parents. just dont give it away cuz thats really sad, and you AND the babys heart will get broken! well, hope i helped!
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you should've thought about that BEFORE you had sex
you might not've asked for it, but its the truth, and im sorry but the truth hurts.
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Tell them. It's for the best. Or go to your doctor who should give you unbiased advice and stay completely confidential.
Do NOT let _anyone_ pressure you into doing _anything_ you don't want to do. Be that having an abortion or keeping the child.
There are charities that will help with adoption of the resulting child if you want but abortion is not the horror that many fundamentalists will make it out to be.
Remember at all times it is YOUR decision, YOUR conscience, YOUR potential child and therefore YOUR choice.
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well i had a friend who went through the same thing and she didnt tell her parents but she got an abortion before her stomach got bigger which i was against because that's murder. but you do what you want...i think you should defiantly tell your parents.. tell your mom or which ever parent is more understanding and less strict. you need your parents to know so they can help you to decide what to do with it..and yes its your decision weather you keep it or not but your parents are still legally incharge of you...dont be scared to tell them because if you can have sex then you can deal with the consequences. telling your parents that you're pregnant will be the hardest thing to do and you'll probly go through alot of problems but you have to stand up to it..hope i helped
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Tell your mom right away. Sit her down, alone, and just tell her that you and your boyfriend had sex... and that the condom broke. She might be able to figure out where you're going with this, and you should just tell her exactly what happened. Let her tell your dad. Good luck with your baby, and I mean that. :)
-mystical_breeze
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Well, evidently you shouldnt wait too long to tell your parents because you need to figure out how your going to deal with this, and get all of the baby stuff if you decide to keep the baby. I suggest sit them down and just tell them that your pregnant. Most likely you'll be in big trouble, but what would you expect? Your 14 years old and pregnant, obviously your going to be in trouble.Good Luck.
-Brina
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I would just tell your mom. Let her deal with letting your dad know.
Moms seem to take the news a lot better than dads.
Tell her sometime when it is just the two of you. Make sure you have plenty of private time so you don't get interrupted. :)
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