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iM jESSiCA x3 i'M ONLY 15 AND HAVE BEEN THROUGH A TON OF TUFF SHiT FOR MY AGE. WAY MORE THAN I SHOULD HAVE EVER HAD TO GO THROUGH. BUT iM HERE TO HELP YOU WITH YOUR PROBLEMS AND TRY MY BEST TO GIVE THE BEST ADViCE i CAN x3

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hey! i need to know how do you give head.. becasue me and my boyfriend made a bet and i lost and know i have to give him head.. so how do you do it?

i dont know... watch euro trip. this girl gives a really good demonstraion with a banana. but i dont give head.. so i really dont know what else to say.. sorry hope i helped ...

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i think i have it but im not sure whats a way to tell if its dicharge

yellow green looking stuff in your undies

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im really afraid that my boyfriend will act weird if he knows im on my period. but he told me to tell him just so he will no incase i have PMS or im in a bad mood, or dont want to do anything sexual.. but im really afraid that he is like, not gunna want to get near me.. do you think that will happen?

please help! ill rate high!

just tell him u started and that you dont want him to weird out about. and if he does. you need to find youself a more mature boyfriend.

or if he tries to do anything sexual just be like eh wrong time of the month and kiss him.

it happens to every girl and if he doesnt know that by now then somethings wrong with him because he is deffiantly not going to find a girl that it doesnt happen to.

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Hey everyone, I need help - FAST ! Please just read my situation and try to help me I'm in deep trouble I think.

Okay, so after school today my boyfriendwas at baseball practice and he had to get something from his locker, and kissed me goodbye and at the time I was looking in his bookbag for his cellphone. Then he left and I was looking at pictures and then my friend came and was like "You should see his texts they're dirty." So I was like okay so we saw a girl's texts to him, lets call her Ashley. The texts weren't that bad but they were like 'I wanna hump you' and stuff like that. So my friend said "Wouldn't it be funny if we told Ashley off?" I was like "No it's not our phone." So my friend said "yeah okay whatever." She wrote "ur a whore" and then she had to go but I said "Don't you think we should at least delete the message so that he (my bf) doesn't see it ?" She said "No because then we have evidence that he sent it ." At the time I was not thinking at all and thought that it would work . But now I realize that obviously he's going to know that he didn't send it.
Well, here it gets worse. He called my other friend that is a guy, let's call him Trevor. Well my boyfriend called Trevor and told him how he thinks I told Ashley that she is a whore. Then Trevor called me and made me confess that it was my friend and it turns out my boyfriend was on the phone listening to mine and Trevor's conversation. At least my boyfriend knows the truth, but I dont think he believes me because while I was in the shower he sent me an IM that what I did was a bitchy thing to do.

The problem is, I didn't write the text ! I mean I know I probably should have stopped her but I went along with it. Now my boyfriend is PISSED at me. What can I do?

I'll rate 5's for anything

explain to him that she was th one who wrote it and your sorry for not stopping her and for going through his fone and if he really cares about you hell believe you and then ask him what she was doing saying that stuff to you anyway. but say it calm and caring not hostile and forcing.

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what does loogeyed mean ?
i was reading a book and i came across it and i cant seem to find out what it means

do you mean googlyeyed?

if you do it means your eyes get all soft and happy when someone you like is around. is an example something like that.

but other than that if you spelt that word right .. try www.dictionary.com

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hey is there any other place that i can get LEI jeans besides fileans? those fit me perfectly (im a 12-14 size)and i'd like to know were they are selling :). Do they have a website? thanks!

jcpenney dillards belks goodys just about any department store

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Hey there. Well ill get straight to it. Im 14 years old, and im a devoted christian. Thing is i was born into christianity but my family are backsliders so now im back into church. Before church i dressed..sorta punk (i really dislike labels) anyways when i became christian, i somehow became involved with rap? because of some of the boys at my church. *bad influences* but now im back to my normal self liking everything i like..but i dont know how i want to be anymore! I have to wear skirts all the time..i like this guy that goes to a dif church..and he doesnt seem to like either..ugh im so confused. anyone who took the time to read this and reply, i def. will rate high.

do what feels right. and dont worry what others think of what your doing. if that guy doesnt like you for you then skrew him because he deffiantly not worth it an never change for anybody for yourself. =)

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if you have foundation and then under eye concealer,which do you put on first?

thanks.
5's for your answers

concealer.

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is a pap smear painful? and what exactly does the doctor do?

thanks

it doesnt hurt. you not supposed to get one until a year after youve had sex. and the thing they stick in you isnt near as big as a penis should be its flat and metal and will probably be cold and it will probably be a bit awkward and they stick a giant qtip in and dap come cells off your cervex.

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For christians, when you go to confession, do you say that masturbation was one of your sins? or is it not a sin? please help

confession? you dont usually confess. you just ask for forgiveness. and its a sin. they expalined it to us in church and at camp. and when you confess to god. you shouldnt have to say what your confessing out loud. its your choice what you do. you dont have to pray out loud. because god hears it in your heart.

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My little 3 year old cousin lives with me and every weekend on Saturday and sometimes Friday i have to babysit from 6 to whenever his mom comes home. My mom is the one that is supposed to babysit but she likes to get out the house on the weekends to. His mom will not even offer to pay and i do this every weekend. And i dont ever come out and tell her she should pay me but i've hinted to it before. And we keep him everyday when she works and she never offers to pay any of us. And im tired of doin this on the weekend when i want to hang out with friends to.I love babysitting and i love my little cousin but i cant do this all the time. I buy him food and when i go riding on the weekends i get him something to eat and drink at the store and all that stuff. And as some of you may know its hard to keep a 3 year old sometimes. and i dunno what to do about it!!

refuse to watch him until your paid.

i know that sounds mean. but dont say it in a mean way. when they tell you to watch him just say no and then be like ill watch him when i start getting paid i wanna go out with my friends like real teenagers do. its not your child and you shouldnt have to raise it.

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I'm 17 years old and i dropped out of school and i dont have a job and i reallly want one i aplied every where and no one has CALLED ME!! All i do is sit here al day getting yelled at by my mom because i dont have a job!! But im trying!! im so depressed im just here all day and we need money so bad were almost evicted ive gained so much weight since ive been home ive been in the hospital before for trying to kill myself and i have cut marks all over my body im about to jump over the EDGE!! and i have a physicall comming up and if my doctor see's those marks im right back at the psych ward:( how do i cover those marks??

I really need some advice thanx

you shouldnt have dropped out of school. it would have made it alot easier for you to get a job. and depending on how dark the scars are.

you can cover them with foundation like you do hickeys. if they are scars.

if not wear a long sleeve shirt. and pants.

THIS WAS NOT A DAMN LECTURE.
ARE YOU SHiTTiN ME! I SAID ONE THiNG ABOUT DROPPiNG OUT OF SCHOOL! YOU STUPiD PEiCE OF SHiT AND THEN i GAVE YOU SOMETHiNG THAT REALLY WORKS! STOP BEiNG SO DAMNED DEPRESSED ABOUT THE WRONG DECiSiONS THAT YOUYOUYOU MADE iN LiFE AND STOP TAKiNG THE SHIT OUT ON PEOPLE THAT ARE TRYiNG FUCKiN' HELP. LEARN TO BE FUCKiN' RESPONSiBLE AND TAKE RESPONSiBiLiTY FOR THE DUMBASS DECISiONS THAT YOU'VE MADE AND ARE STiLL MAKiNG. damn go up. NOBODY iS GONNA HiRE SOMEONE WITH AN ATTiTUDE LiKE THAT. SO NOW U KNOW WHY YOU HAVENT HEARD ANYTHiNG BACK. BEAUSE THEY DONT WANT SOME DUMBASS LIKE YOU WORKING FOR THEM.
get the piture now bitch.

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13/f
A lot has happened to me: parents have cancer, getting a divorce, was rapped (twice), have depression do drugs, smoke and i told my friend alex and he can relate (depression and sorda my supplier) and i told my BEST FRIEND allie and one more person cuz she said she new ppl who are on drugs and i needed some more..and she told.a bunch of people AND the school councilor alex tells me she was trying to help but ive been getting a lot of questioning lately and i hate it.but then again, i wanted an adult to know, but i dunno if i should be mad at her i mean i AM REALLY PISSED!!!!! but still..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
much love..

im confused about who told on you?

you obviously know now that you cant trust that person. and if you are going to continue to do drugs. i wouldnt have them in your pocession on school campus. just in case you get searched.

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well i have to budgies. 1 is sky blue and is a boy. the others is white with splats of turqoise, and is a female. i was just wandering if anybody has any good names for the birds?

thanx:)

i like skylar. ive always liked the name skylar. girl or boy name. =)

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ok i was reeding your colume and figured u can help i am a 17/m and i was at a friends (17/m) house getting drunk well one thing lead to anouther and i was giveing him head well he warned me befor he cumed but i finished him neways and swallowed it does this make me gay or bi or what
sorry so nasty but i need help thanx..

it doesn't make you either. unless your attracted to him. you were just drunk and things got out of control. ive been there and one that.

if your now attracted to him when your sober then being gay/bi might be something you want to consider.

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okay well theres this guy. well actually hes my ex. and i mean me and him were together for like a month and then i broke up with him.. but i had soo much going on then and thats why i broke up with him.. well now like everything reminds me of him.. and i cant seem to get over him.. i know i made tha mistake for breakin up with him, and i regret that every single day.. now every time i see him i want him bak.. but i dont know how he feels. and i dont even know if he has a grlfriend..

please help me i dont know what to do.. i want him bak but i know that i cant just tell him "oh i like u again" and i dont even see him that often now..

im soo confused.. and without him i feel soo incomplete.. i really do think he was the one, and i screwed it up..


call him one day and just be like hey. i havent talked to you in a while and i was watching tv when a commercial reminded me of you yeah i know corny but i just wanted to call and see how your doing. whats up?

and then just like talk to him. have a regular conversation and be like im sorry i broke up with you and i wanted you to know you meant alot to me and i hope i didnt hurt you.

and then ask him hows hes been since you.

act totally casual about it so he can feel your totally comfortable.

is he tells you hes single then ask him if hes crushing. dont be forceful or to pushy like ordering him or anything. is he says nobody continue to talk to him. grow a strong friendship and flirt with him innocently without hinting out at first and then gradually show him you still like him without having to just come out and say it. if he says he never got over you then tell him you still like him and care about him. and let thigs go from there.

if he tells you he has a girlfriend. dont let him know your upset. plan a girls night out somewhere where you can meet boys. flirt with guys. and just take things slow. time will ease your pain.

theres plenty of fish in the sea. and everything happens for a reason.

hope i helped

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i usually either straighten, scrunch, where up, where down, do a half ponytail, with my hair.

i think it's getting boring :[ lol. any how-to styles or sites that have some new stuff for hair? mine is about one inch past my shoulders. thx for any help

layers, highlights, side bangs

french braided pig tails are cute and country.

and magazines like seventeen always have multiple ideas of doing hair a different way.

and ribbons when u pull it up are always darling too.

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I absolutely love to read. Can anyone give me lots of great teen books (novels are great!) that you absolutely loved...Most likely if a lot of people have read it, ive read it too. so think of some good ones that not many have read. some examples of my faves are Looking For Alaska, and Hard Love. Just looking for some more options!Thanks a bunch.


My Favorites would have to be the Three "Sisterhood of The Traveling Pants"

thats sounds so corney but its so good. and has absolutly nothing to do with pants. haha its just the pants that bring the story together.

-the notebook is also really good

and im about to start reading the series of unfortunate events series because i saw the movie and thought it was like amazing that someone could some up with that.

i like to read to =)

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14/f. this weekend i'm going to travel to san antonio with my school's math/science team to compete. we're staying the night friday, going to six flags on saturday, and driving back all saturday night. there's about 12 people from my grade, and i'm really good friends with all of them (there are also 7th grade and 6th grade students, but we ditch them every year). for most of the 8th graders, this is our last year to go to san antonio. we always have a lot of fun. now to my question: we always do something really fun and spontaneous every year. do any of you have any suggestions? pranks or even really fun games? two years ago we all jumped into the pool when it was 60 degrees outside, and last year we straightened the guys' hair. we haven't thought of anything to do yet, but do you have any ideas?


when the 6th and 7th graders fall asleep on the bus you should put shaving cream in there hair. and draw on there faces.

my and my friends always used to play silly pranks like that on each other when we had slumber parties in middle school.

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14/f.. I had sex with my boyfreind about 3 or 4 weeks ago and the condom broke!! I took 3 pregnency tests without my parents knowing and they were all positve!! so i think i'm pregent how could i tell my parents? HELP
I'll rate 5


plan a family a dinner. and ask them hows life and whats going on and when they ask you "what about you" just be like well i think i might be pregnant and they pick up your drink and look at the table. and make sure theyre in a good mood. when you tell them.

my advice is not to get an abortion because in my point of veiw its murder. unless you get tested and theres going to be something wrong with it. then i suggest you do because no one wants to grow up being deformed paralyzed or with down syndrome.

decide if you want to keep it or give it up for adoption. and then let your parents know what your decision it. tell them your sorry for disapointing them and you feel really bad but you would appreciate it if they respected your decision because you could really use there support help and advice but you dont want them to make this decision for you.

it always helps if your crying cause theyll know that your really sorry and you really care.

hope i helped.

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