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yea and theres this boy


Question Posted Saturday April 1 2006, 8:38 pm

okay well theres this guy. well actually hes my ex. and i mean me and him were together for like a month and then i broke up with him.. but i had soo much going on then and thats why i broke up with him.. well now like everything reminds me of him.. and i cant seem to get over him.. i know i made tha mistake for breakin up with him, and i regret that every single day.. now every time i see him i want him bak.. but i dont know how he feels. and i dont even know if he has a grlfriend..

please help me i dont know what to do.. i want him bak but i know that i cant just tell him "oh i like u again" and i dont even see him that often now..

im soo confused.. and without him i feel soo incomplete.. i really do think he was the one, and i screwed it up..



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PiNKFiNGERPAiNTx3 answered Saturday April 1 2006, 8:52 pm:
call him one day and just be like hey. i havent talked to you in a while and i was watching tv when a commercial reminded me of you yeah i know corny but i just wanted to call and see how your doing. whats up?

and then just like talk to him. have a regular conversation and be like im sorry i broke up with you and i wanted you to know you meant alot to me and i hope i didnt hurt you.

and then ask him hows hes been since you.

act totally casual about it so he can feel your totally comfortable.

is he tells you hes single then ask him if hes crushing. dont be forceful or to pushy like ordering him or anything. is he says nobody continue to talk to him. grow a strong friendship and flirt with him innocently without hinting out at first and then gradually show him you still like him without having to just come out and say it. if he says he never got over you then tell him you still like him and care about him. and let thigs go from there.

if he tells you he has a girlfriend. dont let him know your upset. plan a girls night out somewhere where you can meet boys. flirt with guys. and just take things slow. time will ease your pain.

theres plenty of fish in the sea. and everything happens for a reason.

hope i helped <3

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday April 1 2006, 8:45 pm:
How about telling him you`d like to hang out sometime..?

Tell him you didn`t stop like him mention what was going on at the time && thats why you had to break up with him not that you wanted too or anything..

Even if he does have a girlfriend you guys can be friends ya know? then if something happens to his girlfriend you`ll be right be by his side as a friend && then maybe you guys can get back together but please don`t like ruin his relationship with his girlfriend [Thats if he has one]

You might want to find out if he has a girlfriend before actually trying to get back with him tho..

hope i helped..

&hearts;Dez

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