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should i tell?
im really afraid that my boyfriend will act weird if he knows im on my period. but he told me to tell him just so he will no incase i have PMS or im in a bad mood, or dont want to do anything sexual.. but im really afraid that he is like, not gunna want to get near me.. do you think that will happen?
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well you will actually be doing him a BIG favor if you tell him.... becuase he doesnt want you to be bitchy at him and trust me he will make it all better... i have my boyfriend trained to know the exact day of the month i start... and he gives me masassages and he makes the pain go away.. so i think you should tell him..
p.s one think you should know is if you decide to tell your b/f he will respect you and keep a secret so have now worries...
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If he asks next time or wants to do anything sexual or anything or asks why your so upset tell him but untel then keep it to yourself. My fiancee was like that when we were going out he always wanted to know.. or he knew already cause like he knew after a few months when it starts when it ends kinda thing lol and guys that actually want you to them no they dont get grossed out there like ok its natural girls cant avoid it ya know. But untel he asks just stay away fro mthe subject and act normal. Hope iv helped.
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just tell him u started and that you dont want him to weird out about. and if he does. you need to find youself a more mature boyfriend.
or if he tries to do anything sexual just be like eh wrong time of the month and kiss him.
it happens to every girl and if he doesnt know that by now then somethings wrong with him because he is deffiantly not going to find a girl that it doesnt happen to.
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you probably won't like this answer, but you two are old enough to be dating, and sexually active to whatever extent, he should be mature enough to handle your period.
If you don't feel comfortable saying it right out, how does "I'm not in the mood" work for you? Maybe have a little code for it.
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That would be really wierd.
I wouldn't really want my girlfriend telling me that. I think that's to much information. But if she did I wouldn't go crazy, I would just rather not know.
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yeah he will.
i would.
i mean he will avoid you but not completely.
but if you control yourself one time, we won't dodge you the other times.
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i was like this when me and my boyfriend first started going out, but we've been together for 3 years so im perfectly fine with telling him now. anyways don't be embarassed just tell him, it happens to all of us. once you get use to telling him you'll be fine with it and so will he.
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LOL, I see this relationship hasnt been going on for a long time, but I understand how you feel. Dont go and announce it while he is eating or anything like that, just say that you have a headache or something because you have you "monthly friend." If he is a good boyfriend he will comfort you not get away from you, but then again try to control that PMSing as much as you can. Just bring it into the conversation like if he hugs you tell him (nicely) to be careful (put a sad face) and say I have cramps. He will get used to it and wont even care anymore when you mention your period.
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i doubt it. Guys these days understand a little about pms..they just dont want to be around to get yelled at or you to get mad at them for no apparent reason(since that usually happens) Just tell him..but if your uncomfortable then dont. Its your choice but you will eventually have to tell your bfs in the near future.
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