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becoming more than just friends
So there's this guy that I'm best friends with. And we've been friends since 4th grade, so we know each other really well. Well, I like him. A lot. I really want to go out with him. Last night at the school dance we slow danced together and now everyone thinks we're going out. And I could tell he enjoyed dancing with me. I mean I would just ask him out but there's more. Two of my other friends like him. One likes him a lot and I'm afarid to tell her I like him (even though she was one of the people that got us to dance). The other one only likes him a little and knows I like him, and, frankly, doesn't care (as in she wouldn't be mad if we went out). But I still don't want anyone to be mad at me. What do I do? Thanks.
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No guy is worth risking a friendship over. The only exception to that rule being in the case of True Love.
However, bearing in mind that you risk losing a good friend over this, my advice would be to talk to her about it. Let her know that you enjoyed the slow dance with him and that you really like him. Say you wanted to talk to her about this first because you were thinking of asking him out but didn't want to risk hurting her because you know she also really likes him.
After this, it's unfortunately a case of waiting and seeing what she says. If she says yes then it's all good and you can go ahead and ask him out (but be tactful. If he says yes and you do go out, try not to talk about it all too much to your friend) but if she says no, I'm afraid you're going to have to try to move on. Hard to do, I know but unless you want to risk your friendship, it's not worth it!
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just ask him out and if they have a problem with it it then tell them that they should've made their move earlier.
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OMG! The same thing happened to my friend!!! [haha i wonder why ]
So you should so ask him out! like on monday like soon!!!!! If you are to shy to then umm me and kik can do it cuase like kik and i are in his homeroom and kik is like his biffle so yea. Please do it!!
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well ultamitly its up to him. he prolly likes you. he might not like your friend. be mature about these things. as long as your mature with your friend and stay nice she might not get to mad. if she does she needs to be a better friend. just dont say anything like "ive liked him longer so hes mine!" thats 7th grade stuff.
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well i think your other two friends can tell that since he danced with you he likes you and not them. that can be really depressing to see the guy you like dancing with another girl. so think about how they must feel. but be happy cause you know the guy likes you the best! but dont take advantage of it.
if your one friend really likes him and would be hurt if you two went out then no i dont think you should go out. because it will ruin your friendship.
remember boys are whatever friends are forever.
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