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Say Yes???
I have a question about this boy i like. he is 17 and i am only 15. i told him i like him and he said he liked me too. he is turnkng 18 this year. everyone who knows we like eachother say they have talked to him and he is going to ask me out. the only problem is that i am rly good friends with this kid and i dont want to ruin that friendship with him. he holds my hand all the time and he said he has a surprise for me on monday. i am kind of scared and i dont know what to say if it is that he is going ask me out. i dont know what to say if he does.
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i think that if you like this guy that much, then you should go for it! But when you guys first start going out just make sure he knows that you still wanna be rly good friends even if you guys do end up breaking up. But go for it if you really like him!
Good Luck! Hope this helps!
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Hey do it. It's not that big of an age difference. But if he's a loser, than say no.
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age doesn't matter if he does ask you out say you really like him and say that your scared of ruining your friendship with him so tell him to make a deal wit you that if you guys break up then you will still be friends
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age shouldn`t matter. but he can get in trouble. like the age of consent is 16... he can get in trouble if something bad happens [you end up pregnant, etc. . . just saying] GO FOR IT!!
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if you really like him you should go out with him. if you are that good of friends with him now and you do eventually break up it shouldnt be awkward if your good enough friends, at 15 and 17 dont expect him to be your soulmate people go out and break up all the time, its the ones who really cared for each other that can be friends after a breakup.
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If you really like this guy, I can understand how you don't want to ruin the friendship. The only reason a friendship would be ruined is if either of you don't forgive if you end up breaking up, or you stop talking. You don't have to let that happen. Let him know your concern. But my advice is this "Life is all about risks and requires you to jump." Good luck and I hope I helped.
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yea i know wat you mean. your friendship seems to mean more to you at the moment tho. The only problem is saying "no" may srew up you freindship so maybe u could tell him how you are feeling and you to can come up with a why that you both are happy.
hope i helped
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You have to see what is most important to you, your friendship or going out with him. I would personally be more worried about the friendship and in that case I would say no, but it's your decision to make, think about the pros and cons that come with saying yes or no. It's a tough decision to make, so just really think it through. Good luck! :)
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