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I was going out with this guy cody for a while then we kind of drifted apart and didnt talk much so i told him i thought we should break up maybe and he said fine now he ignored me on yahoo wont answer my calls and avoids me at school then last night i stayed up for 1 1/2 hours begging him to take me back and he said he'll think about it but i couldnt believe how eaasy it was for him to just throw me aside like that but when we were together he was SO sweet he wrote me poems and always told me how much he loved me but then theres another guy ive kind of been telling about this and now i really want him too and we just click so fantastically you wouldnt even believe and hes so nice and so sweet but i just dont know who to choose i hate this cause i feel like im toying with them both but i do love them each i just dont know what to do if you can help id appreciate it thanx
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I think it's pretty much over between Cody and you..if you really wanted him back then stop begging him and see if he comes back. Let him come to you since what you're doing now isnt working.
From the looks of things though, it seems as if Cody is moving on and you should be too.
Now for this other guy, if you want to date him then you should go after it! You said that you guys clicked fantastically...there is no reason why you shouldn't give him a chance. You'll be able to get over Cody in time and maybe having a new relationship would help it.
You can live without Cody, you may not think it right now, but trust me, I've been in a relationship before where I though I would die without the other person....well I'm here now aren't I? :)
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well he kinda has the right, you were the one who broke up with him the first place. I think he is just using that fact to toy with you and to prolong telling you her really likes you still, he wants you to feel some of the pain he felt after you dumped him. You can't blame him for it tho.
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Well, to me it sounds like you should definitely go out with the new guy. You broke up with Cody, and he seems to be moving on with his life, and it doesn't seem like he's all for taking you back, while the new guy sounds like he really wants to go out with you. It just seems like if you guys click so fantastically you should give him a chance, you never know, it may turn out better than your last relationship, but you won't know unless you give him a chance.
----> Maureen
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I wouldn't go with "cody" any more. It's not an active relationship and you'll only drift farther apart, so I would go with the other guy. Good luck.
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