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Two boys what one????
How do i start well when i first started school there was this guy and i liked him when i first saw him. I looked for him on my first day of school and i wished i could see him again anyway as time went on he got my number contacted me and he even took me home. He asked me if he could kiss me and i think i kinda just hugged him because to be honest i get really scared of that sort of thing i think ohh what if i do it all wrong and he does not like me afterwards. Now A few days went by and he asked me out i gave him an excuse that i was not allowed a bf his name was james. I said that to him because another boy told me he liked me and i thought it would be horrible to say yes to one and no to another. So lets call the other one Jack.. Jack asked me out three times and i said no. My friend told me yesterday Jack does not like you anymore hes gone off you. How can he have gone off me that quick? ahh i kinda like jack aswell.Thing i need help on is i think i like James more and james is taking me home on monday and if he trys to kiss me i really want to but i don't know how???? and i don't want to hurt Jack... because i kinda have feelings for jack aswell... Someone help before monday please because hes taking me home on monday Thank you. ahh another thing is in school jack always wants to be with me and james does not...
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I that if you just relax and not get nervous and not think about him kissing you. If you dont worry then you will fine. Once he kisses you you will be so happy and want him to do it again. The best thing is to conquer you fears.
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Dear Two Boys,
First thing to keep in mind is be honest with both boys, but date them both. Remember, dating is just a way to get to know them better. While dating you are not obligated to kiss, have sex or even hold hands. If you decide to go steady with one, then quit dating the other. You said Jack has "gone off you", this just means he has given up trying to get you to go out with him. It does not mean that he doesn't like you. Call him, tell him the truth. You have been asked out by other boys and cannot decide who to go with. Tell both boys that you want to get to know them better by dating both with no commitments to either one. Who knows, you might like Jack more than James once you get to know them both. IF they are not OK with this, then they are not interested in getting to know you and are not worth your time. Take things slow, patience is a virtue, trust me, the one that really likes you will do anything for you.
Above everything, be honest with everyone. If they cannot handle it, then you are better off without them. GOOD LUCK
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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