Hey,
I need some help with flirting! I am a shy girl but I tend to over-act and get silly when I like someone. How can I flirt subtley and not just look like a prat?
To the guys: what do you like a girl to do when she flirts with you?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ilovepink101 answered Monday November 7 2005, 7:46 pm: well you need to act like your self when your flirting with somebody..because if you like somebody you want them to like you for who you are..not the girl that flirts with the guys and acts weird..well when you flirt with somebody y ou wanna them to know that you like them but with out saying it in words you know what i mean..and you want to get that same vibe from them..and im sure the guys want t he girls to be them selves all the way..just just be your self and go out there and flirt..and that shy thing!!dont be shy in front of boys..there just boys..dont worry..like i said before be your self..
hope i helped..
love always,
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BABYGiRL27 answered Monday November 7 2005, 6:38 pm: heeey ! i can help you with learning how to flirt! =)
just like make jokes about the boys .. like pretend to act kinda angry in a cute way..
and like smile at them in the halllway and maybe poke them or push them
try to be more outgoing and confident because guys like that !!
hopeee i helpeddd ! =) [ BABYGiRL27's advice column | Ask BABYGiRL27 A Question ]
GDROB2 answered Saturday November 5 2005, 10:26 pm: Flirting is an art and the best way to learn it is to watch others at it. That's the best way but to also know one thing--never look fake or go over the top.
Universal with flirting is the twirling of the hair, foot tapping, playing footsie if he sits across from you, smiling at him. Then if you can find a few things to compliment him publically on try that. Being subtle is rather easy you just have to know not to do any of things every time you see him and play up on them when the moment is right.
As far as beingv shy goes he's no different than you around the opposite sex either even if he looks confident. Be yourself, relax and have fun with it. Eventually he will see and figure out what you are up to. Being shy works to the advantage guys like a girl who blushes now and then and stammers when she gets caught looking at him.
It's a turn on for some of us. Nervous giggling too is natural. Just be who you are and I'm sure he'll be interested in finding out more. [ GDROB2's advice column | Ask GDROB2 A Question ]
careface2u answered Saturday November 5 2005, 9:29 pm: kay.
1. what is a prat?
mwahhhx33 answered Saturday November 5 2005, 9:15 pm: hey. im shy too, and i know how hard it is to act like yourself in front of a guy you like. just pretend like hes one of your friends or w/e..i know its hard! sorry i didnt help much [ mwahhhx33's advice column | Ask mwahhhx33 A Question ]
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