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hey everyone! my name is ali. im 14 years old! i love to give advice! so please ask! well..i really dont know what else to write! ask away!
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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3
no! dont break up with him! you love him! he makes you happy! plus, everyone breaks out, and you probably will too..what if he dumped you fo rhaving pimples??!! definetly dont. its wrong. hope i helped
well i get really depressed and at school everbody thinks im fine because i front this fake smile and this happy person but deep down inside i really hate myself, my life, my family and everything!!! i act fake for my family too! does anybody have and ideas to help me?? > ( i dont want my family to find out)
also i cut, pop pills and write poemss about sucide and death!
PLZ PLZ PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
okay..people always are depressed..its normal.
but cutting isnt gonna help..itll just make you more depressed cuz you wont look as good with all the cuts and scars.
pills..VERY BAD..they can kill you and your young so try not to have any.when your about to, just get icecream or sumthing.
the poetry..it wont do anything bad..but i mean dont you have better things to do? when im depressed i go outside..and i play basketball or take a long walk or sumthing..try that..and also the poetry is just gonna make you more depressed because then your mind just brings back bad memories..
and you need to find someone you REALLY trust. i think its wrong that you keeping it from your family. once you spill it out to someone..youll feel better.
and a theropist..yea i agree with you..i mean its emberassing telling them stuff.ha.
also, dont worry, everyone gets depressed.
hope i helped!
ok its like this,
everyboy i have ever liked always happens to link back to my first prpoper boyf.......
1.graham- used to be friends with my ex and also shares the same name.
2.j.t -friends with my ex and shares the same taste in clothes and hair (he fancies me i dont fancie him)
3. paul - the 1st person i have fancied in a long time that doesnt involve my ex in any way.
My friend robin ased me to meet(french kiss)paul
and i came round to the idea and the more it dragged on before robin asked him the more i seemed to fancy him.Robin is a good friend of his and but he said no to meeting me.robin hasnt told me yet but i know coz i told kelly about it and she asked him (on the same day as robin CRINGE)so now he probly tinks i rely like him.truth is i dont like him that much but that might be because he wudnt meet me.but if he had said that he would then i probly would have.
my other friend tara told me who fancied me (robin nos this also and she wont tall me but she doesnt no i no)(j.t ) but he doesnt no i no.tara said he acts like an eejit around people he likes and that paul only said no to me coz hes kinda scared and that he probably is into me.
what i really want to no is how can i have so much romance in my life one day and completely none (that i want)the next?and why does robin not tell me anything?
PLEEEEEEEEEEAAASEE HELP
I RATE 5's
okay this is REALLY confusing..so i might not be much help..
it sucks..one day is like, the best day of your life, and the next day, you just wanna sit in a corner and cry because nothing is going right..am i correct?
well i dont know why robin isnt telling you anything, you need to like call him or talk to him online and see whats up. you also need to tell him that you dont really like him..just get things straight.
i know i wasnt much help, but i tried..this is very confusing!
It seems like every one is starting to dislike me. One minute people want to talk next minute they want fight but to be honest stuff like DONT BOTHER ME? My question what should I do if a boy once said he loved me but now walking around school with another person. Should i curse her out or should i just leave both of them alone.
dont curse her out, she didnt do anything. if you want, curse him out, but you'll never get a chance with him. i mean you should even want to go out with that fag after what he did to you! hes a looser! just leave them both alone, cause eventually..he'll relize what hes missing...but youll find a better guy by then..
hey everyone! does anyone noe a good way to stop split ends? i have a ceramic and it`s killer to my hair! i rate high! please help
[ &hearts:muah♥ ]
well there are some shampoos and conditioners just for split ends, but they dont do a lot..just get them cut off, you'll feel better about your hair, your hair will be healthier, and it will grow out faster! hope i helpedd!
Do you have any makeup tips for me?
Or any hair style tips?
Id like to make myself look good so I can be more confident in myself.
I have blonde hair green eyes and fair skin. Im not albino light but im not tan tan
Please help! IM NOT CONFIDENT AT ALL!
straighten or curl your hair..
wear dark eyleliner and mascera to show your pretty eyes..
either go to a tanning salon((which isnt really good for you)) or get involved in outside sports, such as tennis, soccer, etc and your skin color will probably get darker..
just be confident about yourself, youll feel better..
you can invite some friends over to give you a makeover? or invite one of your friends that's good with makeup?
hoppe i helped!
i want to know how old i will be when i die. i dont want to die at a young age. here lately i have been so worried about it. can you help me out?
lifes, short..enjoy it while you can! everyone dies and no one knows what age theyre going to die at. but to live longer, eat healthy, excercice, and just hang out with friends and dont get stressed all the time! hope i helped!
Hey,
I need some help with flirting! I am a shy girl but I tend to over-act and get silly when I like someone. How can I flirt subtley and not just look like a prat?
To the guys: what do you like a girl to do when she flirts with you?
hey. im shy too, and i know how hard it is to act like yourself in front of a guy you like. just pretend like hes one of your friends or w/e..i know its hard! sorry i didnt help much
13/f, so i went to my old schools dance and this guy named alex that i have known and been friends with for two years slow danced with me. He pulled me in realy close so were were like hugging and then he grabbed my but and also he tried to kiss me. Everyone says he likes me but when my friend and i asked him he said he dosnt like me. Do you think he likes me and also what should i do because i am majorly in love with him and never want to let him go but i think i just did. i am so mixed up please help
umm..yea i think he likes you. and i think hes to shy to tell you to your face..but yea thats flirting. i think you should talk to him about it! hope i helped!
How do you do splits? What are some excersises?
do a split against the wall, and do it as far as you can for about a minute or two. do it everytday and youll get better!
When a guy tells a girl his good opinions about her, is that flirtig? If so, I have flirted a lot.
if he tells his good opinions about her, yep!
hi i like this boy. i want to be freinds with him and talk to him with out him knowing that i lke him.i kno were his locker is (right acrass from mine if i could do somthing with that)help
fake bump in to him when hes like at his locker and you need to go to a class! and i think you should kind of give him hints that you like him, because he may like you! dont hide it! hope i helped!
ive been really sad lately and i dont know why i cant explain it...like i dont feel liek doing anything and i dont even feel like talkin to my girl which i talk to her about everything....theres no more passion in anything i do...please help
your just depressed! everyone goes through it. its fine..just run around to get your mind off of it. u need to start talking to your girl friend, because she wont know wahts going on, and maybe shell make you feel better! hope i helped!
Ok This guy that i like, he's awesome. well my friend JJ was sopossed to help me become his friend. thing is now shes his friend and ain't helpin me any. i feel like shes gonna hook up with him!!! WHAT SHOOD I DO???? HELP PLEASE
*~*Karlie*~*
UGHH! i HATE when that happens! it happened to me a couple of times. anyways, hang out with her when shes with him. yall WILL become closer. he may even find her less interesting than you, and he'll want to be with you more. so, just be flirty around him. tell her how you feel, also. that would be kind of mean if she h/u with him, when you like him!
19/f
I met someone who was only in my hometown for a week, and we kissed, talked, and really connected. I seriously fell for him.
Of course, some people will think we were only together as rebounds, because he lost a friend and I was getting out of a serious relationship with someone. Regardless, he made me feel happy and alive.
I gave him my email address and phone number, he gave me his favorite hat. It's been over a week, and I have not heard from him. Should I just forget him, or make an effort to contact him?
I've been searching for a phone number/email but my search so far has come up fruitless. I don't know what to do. He's in the military and I would just love to talk to him before he has to go to Iraq again. However, I don't want to completely freak him out and seem "stalkerish." So even if I found a number, I don't know if I'd have the guts to call it.
It worries me that he hasn't tried contacting me yet. Maybe he thinks that since I was going through a lot that he should just back off. Maybe he felt nothing for me and really is a jerk. I don't know. Should I be patient, or make a move?
I am trying to forget about him and trying not to make the relationship anymore than what it was. It's hard because I keep thinking about him. I just need to tell him thanks (the reason is very personal and complicated so I don't want to go into detail.) Maybe if I could just tell him that, then I could move on. But for now, I feel like I have something I seriously need to get off my chest and it's driving me insane not being about to explain things!!
guys just dont call the girls. its not just him, but almosy all guys! call him first. maybe he just want you to call him first. he might want to see if youre acually into him! so call him. talk. and he'll probably start calling you! hope i helped!
most girls call guys pigs and cheaters....but i was just curious as to how many people know this is that girls actually cheat more than men do its just that they dont get caught as easily as guys do....so y would girls call cheaters and such when its actually proven that they cheat more than guys...but they are better at hiding it so im just curious as to why guys get labeled as being more of the cheating type??? thanks 4 the help
well..it's mostly like, the slutty girls that cheat! i mean, guys are just SO weird, and you'll always hear stories about a girl having her heart broken, and how much shes been crying. guys arent like that as much. ha sorry this is kind of confusing!
Can someone give me a cute little saying about missing someone you're in love with, and knowing you don't have a chance. Either one will do! I want to put one in my AIM profile.
hey babe! heres a couple..some arent what u asked for..but theyre still SO cute!:
I hate the way you talk to me,
And the way you cut your hair.
I hate the way you drive my car,
I hate it when you stare.
I hate your big dumb combat boots
And the way you read my mind.
I hate you so much it makes me sick,
It even makes me rhyme.
I hate the way you’re always right,
I hate it when you lie.
I hate it when you make me laugh,
Even worse when you make me cry
I hate it when you’re not around,
And the fact you didn’t call
But mostly I hate the way I don’t hate you,
Not even close>Not even a little bit
Not even at all.
Last night while we were lying together,
I used my finger to spell out the words
I l-o-v-e y-o-u on your back...
Thinking you weren't paying attention…
Until you turned around, kissed me,
Looked me in the eye & whispered. . .
I love you too . . . x33
When I see you... I always think to myself...omg there he is
When he sees me - does he say ; omg there she is?
Everyone’s always telling me to just get over you and move on; obviously they just don't understand just how hard I've already tried.
Everyone hates hearing me talk about youu... && all of my friends call me STUPID for wanting to be with you. They all tell me that I can do a hundred times better than youu... but nobody understands how much I truly care for you.
In a perfect world, there would be no mirrors.
Cause every girl would have a perfect guy to tell her…that she looks beautiful
He will never know how many tears are fallen each night for him...nor the endless hours that she wastes thinking…Maybe;; just maybe.
&& your the only reason i get up every morning.
It's not up to me anymore. If you really want me in your life then you'll find a way to put me there..
& even thought i know it's not true ;
i can't help but hope that everytime you
smile or joke or show off,
that you're doing it for me.