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* I love him*


Question Posted Tuesday August 2 2005, 2:26 am

Ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years. We really love each other and we live with each other. Hes been telling me latley that i dont act like i care about him. I really do and i tried telling him this and he says i dont act it and i dont show him that i care and love him..What do i do to show him that i really do wanna be in a relationship an i do love and care about him..ive tried talkin to him..an it doesnt seem to work..is there certain stuff that needs to be said? what i dont wanna loose him an i wanna be with him..but i need to know he knows i love him

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Phoebe2215 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 10:29 pm:
My boyfriend said the same thing to me. i know you do because otherwise you wouldnt be asking for advice on this site. well first off, tell him that you don't understand because he should already know you do without you having to tell him 24/7 that you love him. but also tell him you'll tell him that more often if he needs to hear it from you, he must love you a lot. becuase relationships are also sacrifices..

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lOstNcOnfuSed answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 10:24 am:
this is a tuffy but the best way to prove that you still love him and care for him is to show that you will always be there for him and doing stuff with him all the time talking doesnt always solve problems like this its better to do things for him and things with him so he knows you love him alot make his favorite food when he comes home and tell him reasons why you love him and why you care for him hold hands when your walking with him kiss when you think its a romantic time hug him when he feels down or you just feel like giving him hugs...i dont know if this helped much but its all i have i hope everything works out just fine =/

*!*MinA*!*

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LongLostHeart answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:41 pm:
Have you tried showing more physical attention?A simple holding of hands,hugging randomly or light kisses can make somone feel better.

Maybe one day you should make him his favorite dinner,for no special reason.Or buy him something thats semi-nice,but useful ((ex: a CD of his favorite band,a DVD etc...))

Tell him WHY you love him,and why you two are so great together.


Hope I've Helped,
~Long Lost <3

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rikatree2375 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 10:38 pm:
Keep trying to tell him. He might just be saying that so you'll have sex with him so just take that as a warning. If he doesn't believe you then that's his problem. All you can do is keep telling him and he should come around eventually. Just be patient and it'll work out!!!

4Him, Disciple (plz rate and send comments!!!)

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xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 8:45 pm:
Maybe you should look at the way that you treat him, or act around him. It might be something like that. Or maybe you act more like a friend? You need to talk to him and see how he thinks you're acting, because otherwise you won't know how to fix it. Hopefully that helps!
&hearts; Melissa

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LiLHoOtYCuTii4U answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 5:44 pm:
Well I have never been in love that long but i would write a song or somthing for him and then buy him something special and maybe have like a candle lite dinner or sumthin! Hoped I helped!
<3<3<3 Kayla Ann

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 1:50 pm:
tell him you love him i mean dont tell him all the time.. maybe you get mad at him or something easily cause i found out that was my problem and thats why my boyfriend thought i didnt like him.. if thats the problem try keeping calm and remind yourself you dont want to lose him.. but if that isnt the problem maybe try askin him what makes him think you dont care or love him.. tell him how you feel and tell him you dont want to lose him.. maybe try doing more things with him or doing things for him.. get him a gift or something and make him a nice dinner with his favorite foods.. and maybe give him a back massage afterwards.. do this one day after he gets off work if possible.. maybe you arent spending enough time with eachother so try rentin movies or something to do at home.. or go to places you use to go to when you first started dating.. take him to the first place you met and talk about how wonderful that day was and how you felt when you first met him.. hope i helped if you need more advice leave it in my inbox.. &hearts; Dez

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x15danni15x answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 12:53 pm:
you first need to tell him that you love him and you want to be with him...then you need to do something special for him to actually show him that you love him like mabey taking him to his favortie place or just spending a romantic night with him...hope i helped

danni <3

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crazyoutyamind answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:52 am:
write like a love letter in like slip it in his pocket or wallet or somewhere where he will find it when your not with him hell read it and see that you really love him well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
~kelly

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FCeLciA answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:42 am:
Well...spend more time with him, tell him that you love him, and tell him how much you really need him. He probably just being jealous that maybe you care about something more than you care about him. If talking doesn't work so much, you probably want to do something for him that will tell him how much you love him. Do something, then it'll make you feel better and solve your problem.

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ViTaChaN answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:37 am:
Well..i think you should talk to him about how much you love him..or..if he doesn't want to listen to you..leave him a message..maybe that's the best way..hope i helped!!

-ViTaChaN-

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