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boyfriend trouble...sorry if its long
this may get kinda long...well i have this boyfriend and weve been going out for about 2 months now, ive seen him mabe once in this time period. he always is with his friends and has time for them but never asks me what im doing or if i ever wanna do something. i can tell he likes me i mean he calls me everynight and if he cant call me, like if he gets in trouble or something, he will tell one of his friends to call me and tell me he cant call...i know this sounds bad and all but i had one of my friends that is a guy call him and casually ask him if he was cheating on me cause i figure mabe hes sick of me and he says that he hasnt been...so i dont know what to do, i really love him and i never stop thinking about him so its not so easy to say, just dump him, thats the advice ive been getting from all my friends...i know i should talk to him about it but im to shy to say it on the fone...i would really appreciate anyyy advice anyone can give me i rate 5's!!! thanksss
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You need to talk to him. Even if it's through a note or e-mail, communication will work best. Just tell him what's going on, and that if you're going to be together you need to talk about this.
If he really likes you, then you should be able to hang out with him when he's with his friends. He shouldn't ALWAYS pick them and it shouldn't always be just him with friends. You can come along. Just talk to him! [= Good luck!
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i understand where your coming from but this is my HONEST opinion. Well i*m sure he really likes you and you really like him but i think that you should maybe ask to take a break and it really shouldn*t be that hard to get over him because you won*t see him obviously. I know your not going to want to but (i learned this in church) a relationship is made up of maaany diff. parts, one is communication which you obviously have, but then there*s intimacy (not sex but you know just like cuddling) and well i can*t member the other things but to me it seems all your relationship is is communication and it*s not a healthy relationship if that*s all you have. I think you should find someone else who you can just watch a movie with and cuddle with. I promise getting over him will be easier then you think!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea
*tell me what you end up doing i*d like to know, and im me if you wanna talk before you break up with him (if that*s wut you choose to do) i can help you come up with what to say without being hurtful!! (aim) -- crazlilchelc152 (i*m always on lol)
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You could ask him on some type of instant messagner.But then you wouldnt hear him the sound of his voice, like if he paused to think about it.
lol my uncle was looking over my shoulder and he is always saying that i cant give advice well jokingly so i proved to him that i can! :) and he had some advice too.
he says: ask him on instant messager/e-mail.In some way of typing it. Because if you ask him in person/on the phone he will feel like he is being put on the spot and will have to react quickly. Which might lead to lying.Then you would have to react back to whatever he says. Putting you on the spot. aka(dont put him on the spot)
You might want to ask him to hang out,tell him what you told me,"i really like you and sometimes i feel like you could be cheating on my because we never hang out, even though you call often i would like to see you more".
Something like that, if you have any questions or need more advice IM me (AIM) at xforgottenx101x
or e-mail me at valzpro@yahoo.com
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i suggest you take a girls night out, do faceils and nails..or w.e just so you can relax and take your mind off of it. then when ur relaxed and ur head is opened and free just call him and just talk to him and be like we dont see each other very oftenn and hell be like yeahh da da da da da and just sorta add in well maybe we can start hanging out more it would be fun ya know
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Hmm, this is bad. you need to be dominant. tell him that if he really wants to be in this relationship, he'd put more effort into it and have to sacrifice things, because thats how real relationships work.. its good that he calls you every night!:)
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