i like this boy, but im not sure if i should tell him.
Question Posted Monday August 1 2005, 2:58 am
alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.
sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\
pinkfairy1773 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 7:30 pm: Well you can choose between 2 things.
1. tell him and you might get answer you want and you might not
2. never tell him and never know...he might've liked you but you will never know
so i will help you decide..but in the end its you who makes the choice...
i know its really difficult when there is friendship involved. but you have to let him know or he will never know how you feel. so here is best way to tell him. invite him over for a walk or something then tell, or just write him a letter. and if he says no, then dont let your bruised ego ruin your confidence and your friendship with him. and you both want to move on so just act normal and dont make a big deal, just say hi and wats up and move on, and i know you will hurt a lot if he dont like you, but there is one guy who wont be able to resist you and he is around somewhere.
Sweetheart10 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 12:59 am: I think that if you really like him then you should tell him.Tell him not to tell his friends.And if you started liking him again you must really have a thing for him and theres something you just cant let go...I've went through it too.And it might be really hard to do but him knowing may just make him like you again.I know its tough just give telling him a chance cause it'll probaly help the situation.If he IMed you maybe he likes you again..hope I helped. [ Sweetheart10's advice column | Ask Sweetheart10 A Question ]
ADViCEx4xY0U answered Monday August 1 2005, 11:52 pm: It seems to me that if your feelings came back after all this time, then there is something about him that you can't let go. I think that you should wait it out. Try to find out who he likes and try talking about who you like without giving away that it's him. That way, you're hinting that it's him without making things weird between him and your other friends. I hope everything works out & I hope I helped.
advicegiver789 answered Monday August 1 2005, 4:29 pm: you should tell him, cuz there's no point of going through life the safe way nothing good in life comes from taking the safe way trust me and if he doesnt like you back then know that there is better people out there [ advicegiver789's advice column | Ask advicegiver789 A Question ]
crazyoutyamind answered Monday August 1 2005, 11:01 am: why dont you just get one of your friends like a girl to go ask him if he likes you if yes then you should tell him but if no then you should keep it to your self
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly [ crazyoutyamind's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamind A Question ]
babyemz answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:17 am: Hun you should let your feelings out about him and tell him.Take him to a nice quiet spot and just sit down with him and tell him you like him if he likes hanging with you and stuff like that you might get the same response and hopefully you too can become more.<3 [ babyemz's advice column | Ask babyemz A Question ]
karenR answered Monday August 1 2005, 8:22 am: I think the fact that he went on a walk with you should be enough to let you know that he likes you! So, if you like him then let him know it. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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