I like this guy and ive gotten like 8 people 2 ask him out 4 me and ive tried asking him out myself but the words wont come out. he always changes the subject but still tells them(the 8 people) he likes me. i dont know wat his problem is. he said 1 of the reasons he wont go out wit me is because he dosent know if i live near him/if he has any way 2 get 2 me but i live in the apartment comlex next to his. i was thinking about going over to pay a visit but do you think that would freak him out or be stocker like? pleez help with any part of my problem...ill rate 5!
Shy-girl answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:09 am: I think it would be ok for you to go round i don't think he would think you were a stalker he might admire the fact that you had the guts to go round and speak to him. it might also be easier to talk to him when you are both alone and are not being pressured into answering. If your not up to going round maybe you could get your friend to help drop your adress into a casual convosation. (but try not to make it obvious about what you are doing.) [ Shy-girl's advice column | Ask Shy-girl A Question ]
XxDigitaltearsxX answered Monday August 1 2005, 7:38 am: Erm, I don't think he's gonna think you're a stalker if you just knocked on the door and asked what's up, I mean, seriously, does the word STALKER pop up through your head when someone comes to your door? I'm sure he'll understand if you tell him you live so close to him, He'll probably date you then, now that he knows you live near. [ XxDigitaltearsxX's advice column | Ask XxDigitaltearsxX A Question ]
karenR answered Monday August 1 2005, 7:32 am: I think it would be okay for you to visit him...just talk to him and don't lurk in the shadows :)
Or, you could simply tell him where you live. If you get no positive response then leave him alone, he may like you but not be interested in dating anyone at the moment...don't want to make him mad. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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