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my lovely father
my father has alway been picking on me ever since i was small.. he denys he hits me. but aftr he does he says ssorry. i mean.. if he`s really that sorry why`d he do it. My friend is coming down from the states into canada for 2 weeks. She knows about him and stuff. just hopefully he doesnt do anyhting stupid. i ant her to have a good time here. any advise on how i can just calm down and think positive. i took walks. but im still paranoid. maybe this is just a fear right? o well thanks anywayz
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um ok. telling yer dad that u WILL tell someone if he does it, isnt the way to go. he will just get mad about that and do it more. dont say anything and the NEXT TIME he does it, call the 911, no matter what you think. im not joking thats freakin like the worst. dont just tell friends, they know only as much as you do, so you need to tell an adult about it. and see what they have to say. hope this helps?
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ok well this is a hard one i am thinking if you want this abuse to stop you have to tell someone. i know you love your dad but that is horrible. when your friend comes to your house just hangout with her and keep your mind focused on her.
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If he is seriously abusing you in anyway contact the police immediately. Hitting your child is a serious crime and if he does it so often as to scare you like this that isnt right. Tell him if he doesn't stop hitting you, you WILL tell someone about it.
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If youR "lovely fatheR" abuses you, he is sick in the head and needs help. You need to stop woRRying about if it's YOU that has the pRoblem, and get some higheR authoRity into this.. please.
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Oh my gosh! Your dad cannot hit you. That's considered child abuse and is very serious, even if he says sorry. It doesn't matter. You can calm down if you tell your mom or tell an aunt or uncle and they can maybe take some action. That would calm you down and make you more confident about your friend coming down. You won't have to worry about your dad if someone is there, watching you and making sure he doesn't hit you. If he denies hitting you, he's not right and should do that to you. Maybe, if you get a chance, talk to him and tell him that you don't want him to embarass you or himself by hitting you and you don't know what to expect. It's going to be fine. If you want to talk about something totally off topic or need more advice you can email me in my Advicenators inbox OR email me seperately at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Is it like abusive hits? Cuz if it is then you should call a hotline, no matter if he says sorry or not he needs help so that you'll be nice. There are many many reasons why people hit other people and I pity them. I think it would have been better if you moved your friend to a motel/hotel instead if you don't want her to get hit.
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Honestly. there is no way changing your dad or what happened with your dad. There is no real way of getting your self to calm down. I had a problem ALOT like that. My dad was a physco. My friend knew all about him and HATES him. What you should do is just nto bring the thing about your dad up ( sorta let her think its over ) then just stay out the house. if she says anything about it be like yeah i know. lwt just forget about it and have a good time.
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Either tell your friend to overlook it, or tell your father how you feel . That's the only way to be for sure and for certain about how things should be. But sometimes things should be a certain way and then they're not . Just talk to him or talk to ber about it all. That's the only way for sure to ease the stress that you're wearing on your shoulders. And relax a little... I can feel the tension in your plea for help. I am glad that I answered this question and I hope I was some help and have a nice day.
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