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Whoa1 buddy
Okw well tonight i went to the movies with my boyfiend and lets say ive never had a kiss and tonight i got it but it was a little bit more than a kiss. it was a french kiss! i just kinda of went along with the flow but.. like the whole movie he was trying to kiss me and i dont like want to ask him to slow down its just he was kinda acting like a dogg!
plz help
Sarah
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You HAVE to tell him to slow it down or else he will never get it through his thick man skull. I've seen too many relationships end becuz things like this always happen.
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I know you don't want to say anything but, if you want him to take it a little slower then you have to. I really don't think he will be real upset. You aren't saying leave me alone after all just take it a bit slower. Tell him you would like to enjoy it a little more and that would be easier if he slowed down a little. :)
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Well, say you did ask him to slow down, what's the worst that could happen? If it's that he'll get upset, think about what that means. Do you really want to be with someone like that? Either way, if you want him to slow down, tell him.
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Well, to be honest you SHOULD ask him to slow down. I mean, you've never had a kiss and he gives you french kisses during the whole movie?! lol. It's no biggie, if he's a good boyfriend he'll understand why you want to take it slower. Or if you don't want to actually tell him to slow down, you could give little messages here and there. Like when he tries to kiss you, make it short and pull away. And if he tries to kiss you again, move your head so he can't kiss you, gently push him away, and say you're really into the movie and you don't want to miss it. That might get the message through, but you should just talk to him about it because it might give him the wrong message and it might hurt him.
Good luck!
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