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omg i dont know what to do ?
ohk so im sick of people in school calling me a whore + hoe. i mean im 13 im 7th and still a virgin. yeah i've gone out with some people but that is no reason for people talkin shit about me! ohk well everyone in school (the ghetto ppl whi used to all be my "friends") want to beat me up because im a "whore". the preppy's say that im one of the prettiest girls in school and that i can get any guy i want, so thats why they call me a whore because there jelous of me and they see me as competition. when a guy grabs my ass i turn arround and slap them or kick them and tell them off and to respect me! well they wrote stuff about me in my locker "______" sux ass and in the bathroom they wrote "_____" is a bitch and slut ... this gets me so upset especially the people who say that act all big and bad but they cant say it to my face ... and i get so upest i dont eat at all, and i've been cutting lately and i know its not worth it! so what can i do ?? please help me
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These people are just extremely jealous of you and have no life of their own. Listen, this may sound so stupid, but just ignore them! if you react to what they say, they will be happy that what they are saying and doing is effecting you and basically ruining your life. Thats their goal! so just tell the stupid bitches off for one last time, and walk away and ignore everything they say. (p.s.-- girls will call you a whore not only bcuz u've had sex and lots of b/fs but bcuz of what you wear...i'm not saying you dress like a whore, just letting you no)
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Deffinetly sounds like jealousy to me!! That's horrible what they wrote on your locker & in the bathroom, you should deffinetly report that to your principal or someone!! Girls can be so mean..but you just have to learn to ignore them & realize that it's your life - you know that you aren't a whore! Dont let it get to ya!! And pleeeease stop cutting .. that makes me sad!
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Omigod that's awful! Have you told the school adminstrators about what they did with your locker? You should tell your family and school that you are being harassed even if it does not seem cool and will make people hate you more. They have no right whatsoever to do that you, you can file for some serious lawsuits. Even when people tell you to just ignore them, it's not going to stop them and sometimes it makes it worse becuz then they think your vulnerable and will harass you more. You have to take a stand for yourself. Being 13 really sucks in this world of today.
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You know what... I'm POSITIVE that anyone who is talking shit is in *NOOOOOO* position to Ridicule YOU!! Tell them that when they fix THEIR flaws.. you'll pay attention to what THEY have to say!! And who caRes what they think!?! I undeRstand it MAY get annoying, but the only opinion that should matteR is that of youR family and fRiends!! If *YOU* aRe happie with the way *YOU* aRe, then TO HELL with eveRyone else!! It's *YOUR* body.. theRefoRe *YOUR* choice!! Do whateveR makes *YOU* happie!! Hopefully this has been even the slightest bit of help!!!
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Shake them HATERS off Girl!
When they stop talking trash about you is when they stop being envious. So you got it going on.
Just smile and don't give them the satisfaction of getting to you.
You know you are not a whore and that's all that counts.
don't sweat those Hookas :)
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