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my friend and are are currently in a fight, you see she is an awesome friend and its a lot of fun hanging out with her and stuff. Lately she has been into this guy and she not being herself, she is ignoring me when he is around but yet she is always asking me to come chill with them. we had a huge fight on the phone and i told her i don't like her when she is hanging out with him and then she said fine then don't hang out with me and she hung up. what should i do??
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well i've been through that befor... i told my BEST friend how i felt and why i was feelin that she was actin diferent .. just explain to her what you feel like... i did nad me and my best friend are ok now!! you just have to sya please don't get mad bc i'm tryin to tell you how i feel so that we can still be best friends!! the sooner the better!! i hoped i helped!!
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Don't do anything. Just wait awhile and she'll probly come to her senses and realize that you guys had a good friendship and that she needs to recognize the both of ya'll.
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You were just being honest about your feelings towards her - it's not your fault. She is trying to be cool and someone she isn't around this guy and you ca see straight through it. The trouble is, because you've said this to her, she is embarrassed and just came out with the first thing that came into her head. She obviously wants you around to make her more comfortable when she's with him to make her seem more relaxed. Don't worry - I'm sure she'll be kicking herself and probably asking for someone elses advice jst like you are. Leave it a day or two and then text or email her. Just say that you're sorry if you upset her because you didn't mean to but you're just concerned as you are her best friend and obviously have her best interests at heart.
A friendship of 3 years will not just end because of an argument like this - trust me. Hope this helps a little x
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simply you need to just tell her how you feel. thats really the easiest thing to do. tell her she needs to make time for you and him. and you need to understand that when people get older things change, and sometimes people start to hang out with other people exspecially when they like boys. but this doesnt mean shes forgetting about you, im sure your still her bffe. but you deffinatly need to tell her how you feel
hope i could help
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You don't know for sure if she is being herself or not, maybe she's just being someone you are not familiar with. And if you're with someone you're totally into, I don't think people realize that their are others around. She was kind enough to invite you to hang out with someone she likes and you just say you don't like her cuz she's hanging out with him? I think that's pretty harsh, it's like basically saying "I don't want you to be with him" to a girl. If you don't want to ruin the friendship, just tell her how you feel and maybe she'll understand.
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