There is this boy I really like..He is 2 years older than me...this guy has been known for doing things with other girls .....but I don't think some of it is true....Lately he has talked to me and acted like he liked me so i guess you can say he has flirted with me........but there are 2 people standin in the way ....1)his girlfriend Chrystal 2) His ex-gf and my best friend Bethany......i don't think his relationship with Crystal will last long so ......If they break up should I try to go with him or should I wait on him to ask me??
Signed,,, TrueHope10
brittany_x31 answered Friday June 24 2005, 2:33 am: It's really hard for a guy to get over his ex girlfriend or a girlfriend he just broke up with. The same with girls. It takes a while before he can come out of his shell and open up and find another girlfriend. That's only if she breaks up with him but if HE breaks up with HER, it will be the other way around. She won't be able to get over HIM! My point is, you should wait for him to ask you BUT you need to flirt a LOT to get his spirit high, O.K. If you need more advice, JUST ASK!!!
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xoxo_perfect1 answered Friday June 24 2005, 2:10 am: what the hell is wrong with you? you don't date your best friends ex! it's like the #1 rule of having friends! what kind of psyco bitch are you?
and neither of them are "standing in the way"! a girlfriend cannot be standing in the way of you stealing a guy from her, and a girlfriend cannot be standing in the way of you stabbing your best friend in the back!
EDIT: even if she says that she's over him, she probably isn't! and it still doesn't make it ok for you to date him! and how do you know that he doesn't like her? are you him? [ xoxo_perfect1's advice column | Ask xoxo_perfect1 A Question ]
Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Friday June 24 2005, 1:36 am: Well if you trust in the guy and you're not in a relationship just to have some "benefits" I say you should totally go for it but you should check how he behaves around other women since has been known for doing "things" with other girls. Make sure you don't try to pick him up too quickly after he breaks up if he breaks up. [ Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy's advice column | Ask Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy A Question ]
ComplexMind answered Friday June 24 2005, 1:33 am: If this is your friend's ex you're talking about, they aren't together for a reason, it's safe to assume one of them made a mistake. Are they bitter? He's known for doing stuff with girls which means he's probably a pro at acting innocent, don't fall for his lies. Be cautious. [ ComplexMind's advice column | Ask ComplexMind A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:28 am: well if he is your best friends ex i wouldnt go out with him but that is just me. but anyways if you think this guy is worth more then a friendship then you should wait for him to ask you out because you dont want to ask and he isnt ready to get into another realtionship.but i think after about a month he doesnt ask you out you should do it. but in the mean time try talking to him more, just becoming close friends with him. hope this helps you out. oh yea you should believe everything everyone says but not all of it is true.
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DeeMocha answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:27 am: i think once they break up you should go for it..because if you wait to long another girl might ask him out..hope i helped..plz rate me! [ DeeMocha's advice column | Ask DeeMocha A Question ]
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