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my name is Nat .. ppl call me Noodalie =) um. and i can help you w. some problems your having =)havnt been through everything but i have experienced it through muah friends. im sure i can help in anything. most of my friends come to me anyways. =)
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Here's the story....
I went out with this guy named Jay for 4 months, we were really happy and any thing then i found out he was moving, so we decided it was better to break it off. So then i was single for a whole,( Still liking Jay) and met this other guy named Chirs. Chris is a really awesome guy, he is just like me, and we get along really well. But just a couple weeks ago, I found out that Jay wasnt moving any more. So we started haning out alot more. And then, Jay asked me back out again, and I said yes. And I am very happy with Jay, but I still can't stop thinking about chirs.It seems that every time i am with Jay, I wish i could be with chirs too.. What do I do.? (link)
its hard. i no cuz ive gone through with the same thing. i would just stay with jay and wehn you dont think its working out take a break and a couple weeks later then i would start liking chris again. just do what you think is right. jay or chris?


i like this guy and i think he might like me too, but i dont want to make the first move. The reason i dont want to make the move is b/c he's my friends bro and if he doesnt like me then it would be wierd and uncomfortable. What should i do, wait till he makes the first move?

signed,
lauren (link)
my advice is to just wait. wait for the right moment because you really dont want to make anything weird or uncomfortable like you said. wait for him to make the first move. be patient.

~natt~


I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online? (link)
probobly on the phone is the best choice if you you are too nervous to do it in person. online and in a note arnt the best choices at all.

~natt~


how can a girl not get pregant when having sex? (link)
using a condom....

~natt~


my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
you could say you heard from someone else but your not going to name any names. that would work. thats really rude and he should be punished

~natt~


i want to kis the person i like but i cant put my self to doing it i am to shy what should i do
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start talking with the guyy and be flirty. if he makes the first move then great! if he doesnt but you feel you are both ready then give it a try.

~natt~


ok see im 16/f and my mom hates my boyfriend. like when we first started talkin she was ok then out of no where she hated him. then she changed her mind and let me go to his moms wedding reception. so we were ok. then he called me a fag on the answering machine(just playing around)she got upset he apologized and we were ok now she hates him and wont let him call my house, so he calls my cell. i love this kid and he loves me but shes messing things up. what should i do? (link)
tell your mom the whole story and tell her that he is a nice guy. dont say you guyys love each other because like most moms they will give you a lecture about how you can love someone when you are your age. tell her the truth about the phone call and that he was just kidding.

~natt~


HEy my BF just broke up with me i 13 and want a devoted person around MARYLANd by the way i going to HOOVER so any1 at HOOVEr call me 301-802-8532 (link)
are you stupid!?!?! dont ever put your phone number on the internet.

~natt~


i want to kiss some1 but they dont want to kis me should i jsut go up to them and kis them? (link)
i guess......

~natt~


I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
dont ever say you just want to be friends. tellhim that u just want to take a break and maybe you guyys could get back together. do it yourself this time.

~natt~


ok well there is this guy i realllly like a lot and he knows i like him, so i got my freind to ask him out today and he said no but he didnt want to and he didnt want to say yes then after that he asks my best fiend out and once she told me i got sooooooooo jelious u would not belive it it made me soo mad and yeah it really made me upset but i didnt want to tell her cause i no she wouldnt like it so i dont no wat to do and it makes me really mad help
signed jelious (link)
i reallly think the best thing is sto tell her. because your going to be miserable if she still goes out with him and she doesnt no. if shes your bff then she'll understand. most girls dump a guyy for their friends anyways. just try telling her.

~natt~


hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks (link)
you can still go on liking him but dont do anything that you will regret because it will screww up your friendship. just try to stay good friends.

~natt~


ok i have liked this girl named kari 4 a very long time and she likes me she goes 2 my school and lives close 2 me i dont like her i love her and i kno it but i datid her 1ns and then we broke up b/c she still had fellins 4 her x i rlly wanna date her agn what should i do

P.S.im 13



*$*need help*$*




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palin and simple....flirt with her. then ask her out

~natt~


I think that i love someone, but i dont no if he likes me or not. How can u tell if a quite, but not that quite guy likes me? So i can compare to see if those things happen to me! (link)
woah! you are confusing me!!! you mean quiet???? im guessing its a yes. if he flirts then he might like you. just see what happens over time. im sure you can figure it out yourself. and by the way...love is a very strong word.

~natt~


this is so typical it kills me.....

i have liked this guy for the whole school year, we became really good friends and he found out i liked him and it brought us closer.. then he liked someone else. she broke his heart and now he hates her.. we became friends again and i thought things were going in the right direction and now i just find out my friend likes him and she didnt tell me , when she knows i have liked him for a long time (supposedly shes like him this long too) and now he has a "crush" on her, but he doesnt like her.. i dont understand..

what should i do?

thanks (link)
flirt with him and do everything you can to get his attention i guess. mess around and get together with him after school or something.

~natt~


I like somone older than me and its a little wierd. I like that person and i dont know if that person would feel comfortable going out with me tho. I dont know if that person likes me or not but if that person did, put ur self in my shoes, would u go out with that person? I thought it was wierd liking someone 2 years older but since i started to like that person it doesnt bother me! (link)
mk your confusing me but i'll try my best to answer. it doesnt matter if they are older than you. if i was in your shoes and he asked me out then i would say yes, if i liked him then OBVIOUSLY i would say yes. and if he does like you..all the better to ya. and it shouldnt bother that hes older than you. if you like someone then you cant help it. i went out with a 14 year old once. that didnt bother me.

~natt~


well i just want to know if u think that this guy might like me. When ever we hang out he`s always so nice to me and he like opens the door for me and when ever i need something he`ll get it for me. It doesnt seem like he does this with anyone else, but i dont know for sure. Also he talks to me online and waves to me when i leave and stuff like that. It just seems like he doesnt really do that to anyone else. Also he looks at me sometimes and i look at him too. Do you think there could be a posability that he might like me? please be honest! (link)
he might like you. if he flirts then yea he does. maybe hes just trying to be a closer friends with you. its really hard to understand guyys. those are my experiences so yea

~natt~


My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here. (link)
most girls feel that way. your opinion might be that she is beautiful and skinny but her opinion might be she is fatt. ppl think that way because they compare themsleves to ppl who they think are "better" than themselves. ex: models, actresses. They pick out their imperfections and make themselves feel worse. i know i do it all the time.most of the time you cant change their opinion. hope i helped

~natt~


i am 15 and never liked someone as much as i like "4" ( we will pretend thats his name* He was my first boy that i fell head of heels in love with. We hooked up and sadly he was the first person ive ever done anything with. and he knew that and made that night i spent with him one of the best in my life. i went to the spring dance with him, i had a great time and so did he!BUT here comes the problem, hes next door neighbor is in love with him....and shes was getting pissed at me because i was with him at the dance and ya i think they hooked up this past weekend. i never really had him but i thought i was close and i dont want him to go. another problem is he is 18 and heading off for the whole summer and then he wil be gone in the fall for college. i really dont know what to do,im sick of beeing confused can u please help me :( (link)
try to see what he did that weekend. if he lies then hes not for you. and college- he will visit and there is always IM and phone calls. dont worry


~natt~


I like this guy and we dont really know each other that well, but i told my friend to tell her other friend to ask him out for me. Well its been two days and he hasnt said anything, or at least the girl who asked him out for me. What should i do i want to know but im not even sure if that girl did ask him out? Im dont even think he`ll say yes, but not knowing is even worse! (link)
i've been there too. my personal opinion is that you shouldnt ask a guyy out you have never talked to before or dont even know that well. it just doesnt work that way. if your friend doesnt tell you then ask him yourself. if he says know that just kkep looking =P. if he says yes then all the better too you! hope it works out!

~natt~




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