There is this kid whos 15 and I really like him..but he doesnt like me only because Im younger than him. He flirts w/ me and stuff when Im alone. Only when Im the only girl around. Then when hes around other girls, he totally acts like Im not there...what is up with this? I need help on this because I dont know whats up w/ him....(hes my cousins friend)
milliethu answered Sunday April 3 2005, 2:15 pm: maby he is just a big flirt and your easy to flirt with. im a big flirt and i do that alot with out meaning to. or maby he likes u, but he doesnt want people to gess that, sence u r younger then him. he could have just been acting friendly too. it really depends on his personality. hope i helped [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
Avocodo answered Sunday April 3 2005, 12:11 am: Hun, i think you can do better than him. To ME it sounds like he thinks he is better than one he is, and is used to getting attention. Remember that there will be other guys, and TRY to find someone else. good luck [ Avocodo's advice column | Ask Avocodo A Question ]
sh0w3rg3lbaby answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:39 am: Leave him alone. Take advice from a 16 yr old girl (me) who's been here. He doesn't want you. He's only going to mess (flirt) with you when it's convenient for him but when girls his own age is around you won't even exist to him. Find someone your own age or just a different 15 year old. This one is just a waste of your time.
karenR answered Saturday April 2 2005, 1:00 am: How much younger than him?
A lot younger and he is right.
He might just be a natural born flirt.he also probably likes you as a friend. If the other girls around are older than you...that's why he flirts with them and ignores you. They are closer to his age maybe.I'm sure this didn't help much, just be friends with him for now.:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xoxbellabebexox answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:48 pm: i had the same problem except his friends didnt like me so they convinced him that im ugly and prude (which im not hes just to dependent on his friends and do everything they say. he wont think for himself.) i dout you want that to happen so tell him that if your not worth it in private then your not worth it in public.
partygurl24 answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:36 pm: It looks like to me that he is sending you mixed feelings. Like I tell other people...talk to him. I think that works best because you know what the other person is feeling, and you can solve the solution best by that way. Tell him that you really like him. I think that he probably likes you, but is afraid to tell you. Tell him that you really like him, and that age doesn't really matter when you guys have feelings for eachother. He'll understand if he knows that you really like him. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
karazimonki answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:58 pm: I think it's like his macho I have to be cool, showy, offy side that shows when you two are not alone.When you two are alon he is himself.
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Nokomis answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:49 pm: He wants to fit in socially, my guy is the same way. Its all good. Tell him how it makes you feel. Don't sweat it, he may just be insecure.
XoLiLwHiTmOrE9oX answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:49 pm: to be honest i dont know.. but boys are boys! and maybe he likes u and doesnt want to show other ppl or maybe he just is plain weird... sorry this might be a bad one..
............((me))............. [ XoLiLwHiTmOrE9oX's advice column | Ask XoLiLwHiTmOrE9oX A Question ]
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