My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago at school. Right after school that same day i saw him kissing another girl. I know we broke up and everything but how did he get over it that fast? My question is how can i get over someone quickly? Any tips on how to forget about someone?
karenR answered Saturday April 2 2005, 12:56 am: He probably already had her waiting in the wing's. What a dog.
You just have to get over it in your own time. There is no quick fix. The sooner you get back into going out with your friends and trying not to dwell on what an ass he turned out to be the better. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
0rangeTape answered Saturday April 2 2005, 12:25 am: well obviously if he is kissing someone else the same day he wasnt a very good boyfriend anywyas.. and he probably got over it so fast because he didnt care as much for you as you probably did for him... the only thing though is time.. and just think about other things and hang out with friends just a have a good time... cuz you can get someone much better than him.. good luck... [ 0rangeTape's advice column | Ask 0rangeTape A Question ]
soccurboi48 answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:47 pm: He could of got over it fast or he could of been cheating on you! And on how to forget about somebody go out and find somebody else that is better than him! I am sure that you can!
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gakkuhideto answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:28 pm: It will be painful to hear this, but he was probably seeing her the entire time you were going out. He probably told her, "I'll break up with her so I can go out with you." He will most likely do the same thing to her. What a jerk, huh? To get over him, keep telling yourself "He's a jerk and I deserve better!" It's natural to have anti-male thoughts during this time. When I am in a man-hating mood I read Yu Watase's Ayashi no Ceres. It has helped me get over guys in the past and I'm sure you can find something similar that will do that same for you. You deserve so much better than anything that guy could ever give you. Keep thinking this way and you will soon be over him. [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
partygurl24 answered Friday April 1 2005, 10:19 pm: I think that your boyfriend is a complete jerk for kissing another girl on the same day that you guys broke up. I mean, I know that you are the one who broke up with him, but that gives him no right to do that. Before you try to get over him, confront him about what he did. Tell him that you saw him kissing that girl, and you didn't appreciate it because you guys had just broken up. Maybe he had a relashionship with that girl when you guys were still a couple, it's bad to think like that but that could be the reason. A way to get over him, well just think about all of his negatives. Maybe he's too short or talks like a girl. If you think about those, then you will know that he's not worth your feelings. I hope that you recover from this and that I helped!
CaLiEnTeBaYbEe answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:53 pm: depends how long you guys went out. if it wasnt that long like a week or whatever...maybe he had feelings for the other girl all along and just dumped you now so he could be with her. but if you guys were close and liked eachother alot...he could be using this girl..like to get over you.he figures now hes single and this girl probably means nothing to him. he didnt get over you that fast. and to forget about him-do the same thing hes doing. talk to other guys, go have a night out with your girls and enjoy the single life!! lol sorry im single right now after 9 months...and im loving it :) ...so just listen to break up songs..music always gets me through tough stuff...im sry that he did that-guys are asses [ CaLiEnTeBaYbEe's advice column | Ask CaLiEnTeBaYbEe A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:49 pm: Been there. Just try to forget about it. I know its not what you want to hear, but you need to move on. One thing: dont let him see that that bothers you or he might make fun of you. Just flirt with other guys and just dont pay attention to him. Or, you could do what I did, ask him. xO ali [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
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