Okay, so I had been going out with this guy for like, nine months.. a long time. and he broke up with me one night, like, out of nowhere. and the next day, like not even 24 hours later, he asked me back out, saying he had made a terrible mistake. I took him back, because i loved him alot, and things were okay i guess. But I was scared he would do it again, because i mean, there were no warning signs. Three weeks later, he dumps me again because "there's no connection" ever since i took him back. Four days later, he goes out on a date with this other girl. many people keep on telling me he'll come crawling back because he did before, but i'm not so sure. he hurt me pretty bad, but i still love the idiot alot... what would you do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ThatSparkle answered Thursday April 7 2005, 9:26 am: If you've been together nine months and everything was going well, up until then... I wouldn't give up. People sometimes forget what it's like to be with someone else, and they forget what it's like to be without someone. I'm sure he'll come back, but when and if he does, don't give in too easily. Give it awhile, and see if everything is alright and he's acting normal. After you give him about a month or two months of time, you can give in.
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