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I always let my best friend borrow some of my shirts, but she will borrow them and forget to give them back. Like 2day I have to wear a blak shirt 4 school and she borrowed it and now she says she already gave it bak but i no she didn't because i have looked everywhere and it is nowhere and she wore it last. Also she borrowed one of my favorite shirts and she said she can't remember where it is but she will look for it and she still hasn't found it. Anyways- this doesn't usually happen, but i think i should not let her borrow anything else from me until she gives me the other stuff back. Is this a good judgement or is there an easier way?
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Why don't you tell her that you won't let her borrow any more of your stuff until she returns the ones she won't give you back? If you're over at her house, maybe you could say, "Hey will you check for that one shirt I lent you quickly? I have to wear it soon, and I'm pretty sure you never gave it back!"
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tell her what u think is best and what should be done about it.
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yeah thats a good idea. It would even be a good idea just to not let her borrow anything at all. Teach her a lesson for a while. Or maybe borrow some of her clothes and do the same thing to her. Good luck
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i think its a good idea not to let her borrow anything else untill she gives you your other stuff back cuz if she doesnt give it back at least thats all ull be missing but if you let her borrow more stuff then you will be missing cuz she most likely wont give those back for a while to but ask her to find it and tell her that ur not gonna let her borrow anything till u get ur other stuff back but be sure to be nice and not mean so there are no unesessary fights
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Here's what I'd do. Tell her that you can't find the shirt, but maybe you misplaced it or something, but next time she asks, just tell her that you think you're going to wear whatever the think she want to borrow soon and you can't lend it to her. I would wait a little before letting her borrow anything, but when and if you do, tell her that you really need it back, and also have a good memory and write down when she gives it back, so that you know she took it. Hope I helped.
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thats a good idea... ask her if she's sure she gave it back
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I think thats a great* way to settle it.. you should tell it like this .. "how would you feel if i borrowed one of your shirts.. your FAVORITE shirt.. and never gave it back...?
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I think thats really smart, you shouldnt let her borrow anything else until she gives you every single thing she borrowed back, and even then, i dont know if you should trust her with your belongings. Just say your mom wont let you, make sumthign up like that.
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you've done the right thing. why should you let her borrow more stuff when she hasn't given other things back?? maybe tell her you can't find it, and ask her to look one more time. g/l..
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I think you've got the right idea. Don't let her borrow anything else of yours until she returns the other items. I've had the same thing happen to me at various times, and people will continue to try to take advantage of you until you put a stop to it. Hopefully, your friend will realize that you're not pleased and give your shirts back.
Good luck!
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I think maybe you should ask if you can look around in her room for the lost items...possibly your friend hasn't even looked and just said she has. You idea is a good one. Tell her I will let you borrow more clothes once I have the rest of my clothes back. But be aware that she might take offence to that so be careful how you tell her. Also if you are planning on wearing a certain piece of clothing in the next few weeks don't let her borrow it, because you may never get it back. Good Luck!
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She has proven that she is irresponsible with your things. If she askes to borrow something again, do not feel bad saying no.
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