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is this slutty
im 13.i went to 3rd.is this slutty?
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Everyone will have their own opinion about this. I think that you are way to young to be doing that but if you did it with someone you care about and they do back then it`s ok. Most girls don`t see they are being used and you have to be able to trust the guy. ♥
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Slutty? Not necessarily - a slut, by definition, is indiscriminate and will offer sexual favors to many guys (or girls).
Bad idea? Definitely. It's my opinion that 13 is too young to do anything but kiss. Here's why:
Reputations aren't always based on all the facts. If word gets around that you gave a guy oral sex, you may be labeled a slut whether it's fair or not, and that label will stick with you all the way through school. And thirteen-year-old boys are not known for being able to keep their mouths shut about things like this.
Hopefully, the guy you did it with will be decent enough not to go around telling all his friends, who will tell their friends, until everyone knows what happened. Presumably, you wouldn't want that. You are now in a vulnerable position, and I hope you can trust the guy you did it with to show a little discretion.
Frankly, I'd be worried if I were you. It doesn't take much to start rumors, and rumors escalate. Remember that next time you feel tempted to go for third.
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not if it was with someone special.
and as long as it's not with multiple guys, often, than it's not slutty.
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if it was with the right person and you don't regret it then no. it is a little more advanced than what most of the kids your age are doing, though.
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Your decisions are your own, but "slutty" isn't the right word unless you do this carelessly with multiple guys.
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