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Who to live with?
So when my parents split up i lived with my mom up until last year. I havent talked to my mom barely since that but my dad is an asshole ALL the time. I dont know... i really want to move back with my mom.. if i knew that she would still let me see my boyfriend and i would still be able to go out. But i dont wanna to move in with her and find out that shes gonna be a bitch and not let me see my boyfriend and not let me go out with my friends at all. What should i do because my dad is an asshole ALL the time.
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I think you should talk with your mom about this, and let her know how you're feeling. I'm sure she would understand, and let you live with her. As a mother, she probably wants you to come and live with her, anyway. So I don't really think she would tell you that you couldn't live with her. However, you do risk not being able to see your boyfriend and friends, if you think she would do that. I think you have to find what's more important, which living arrangement is really best for you, and questions like these.
I don't know what your dad is doing or saying, but if you believe it's bad enough to leave, then I'm assuming it can't be good. So I definitely recommend calling or going to see your mother, and explain to her what's going on. And see if you can live with her, or what can be worked out for you.
Good luck, I'm sure everything will work out for you!
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I know how you feel.. I'm in the same situation. Well would you rather have your dad being an ass hole all the time OR you can move with your mom and she's only being a bitch sometimes. Its a 50% kinda thing. You'll never know what's the outcome going to be until you move with one and see the consequences yourself. Everyone parents have their own rule.. in my case, both of my parents are remarried.. my mom and dad doesn't talk to one another. And with my dad he doesn't let me go out at all but I can do watever I want in the house. With my mom I can go out sometimes but I have to take school first and always focus on education.. and so on which is boring. But I chose to live with my mom.
You case, you can look at what benifit you if you live with you dad .. and do the same with your mom. You can also think about who would you love to live with more.. mom or dad? or who you have a better connection with.. ? who do you love more?
Since your is being a jerk.. then if you decide to move back with your mom... you and her can have a compromise that you both can agree to. Then you can see if she agrees to let you go out and see your boyfriend or not. So you can make your decision from there. But I hope you and your mom would come to a compromise that you both will be happy with.
hope I helped. good luck.! =].
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Next time you see or talk to your mom. Mention your situation you know if she ask something simple like "how are you?". Tell her about your boyfriend too that way she knows you have one. Maybe even have her meet him. You could try living with her for a little while and if things don`t work out move back home with your dad. I`m sure if you mention it to your mom, she`ll let you move in & try it out. If things don`t work out with her, try talking to your dad. He`s probally dealing with alot too i`m guessing. Hope this helps. ♥
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I think you should call your mom and talk to her about your feelings and thoughts. Say you would love to live with her but you still want to have a social life. I'm sure she'll undrstand. Don't yell and scream, treat the situation maturely. As for your dad, tell himwhy you want to live with your mom.
--Natalie GOOD LUCK!
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