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parents and my brother!
Ok I can answer almost anything and know I am stuck on a single family problume! Ahh but thanks for your help ahead of time!!! Ok my parents are always fighting I mean always! They fight over my dad always yelling at me cussing me out and stuff like that! Then this past school some girl who I had never talked to only maybe once or twice. Told the office that I was being abussed because i had bruises on me. Yeah my da had hit me and so on and so on, but they didn't even let me talk very much or anything to say my side or anything. They called childrens services and they came to my house. My dad lied to them in front of every onen else in my family and he said that it was just from be that I was falling of my horse running barrels and he grabed me because he didn't want me to hurt my self! He yells at me all the time and he is hardly ever home but when he is I am always in the worst mood because I don't want to be around him! He once told me to get the hell out of his life! I tryed to run away this was about a year ago! And i have also tryed to run away in the past as well! But I don't do that any more because my mom swares that if she lost me she would get killed! But know onto my brother... he is just like my dad except the beating of him is worse! I will do one thing wrong like leave up the foot rest on our couch and he will sit there and screem at the top of his lugs at me for it. I cant look people in the eyes I never have it makes me feel weired but then he punches me and kicks me and things like that! he does it all the time! he has cut me with knifes and spoons and thrown me down stairs! Too What i am saying is also he is getting married and she wants kids! I have tryed to tell her but she is too in love with my brother to understand me! I am worrried for my brothers fiancee(sp?) and his future kids and also what can I do about my parents and my brother? I am so stressed out I don't know how to handle it!!! Please Help I need it bad! Also Sorry this is soo long!!!
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I know this is not the answer that you want to hear, but I have to give it anyway. You need to report him to child protective services. I know that he is your brother and you love him, but he needs help. You're right to be concerned about your future nieces and nephews. Your brother obviously learned this behavior from your dad and he'll pass it along to his sons, if no one puts a stop to this now. Believe me, I understand that you love your brother and your dad but no child deserves to go through this. The only other option is if you have a trusted aunt or uncle that would listen to you and that your dad and brother respect, maybe you can go to them and tell them what's going on. They might be able to intervene. It's up to you. You are in the position to prevent this kind of abuse from happening to your future nieces and nephews. I know it's hard, but if you can't do it for yourself do it for them. I wish you the best of luck and all the happiness you deserve!
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Ok, my dad has never abused me like your dad but he yells at me and i got him the hell out of my life. Talk to your mom, maternal insticnts are really really strong. Tell her you two need to get out of there. And seriously call the cops! But if you don't call the cops you still need to get out of there. To tell you the truth before i got on this site i thought what my dad did to me is bad but what your dad does to you can hurt your relationships in the long run. Also, you should talk to a couselor at your cmmunity center if they have them. Tell them its completely confidential and ask them to tell you your options. They'll help you through it, believe me! If you ever need to talk you can ask me anytime! I really hope everything works out!
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Well, you are doing the right thing by trying to tell your brother's girlfriend. As for your dad, stay away from him as much as possible and go and talk to someone about it. A conselor would probably be best considering you've been hurt enough times to not be able to look people straight in the eye anymore and your running away from home. This is not a normal thing and something needs to be done. If you feel brave enough, try and catch some of your brothers yelling or your father's abuse on tape or on film and then show it to the police. Your father lied to them (against the law) and he beat you (against the law) and he could have enough stuff and evidence on him to put him away which would most likely be best for you family.
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ok well i think you should try to get phone numbers. like when you go to school they usually have a listof numberrs you can call to talk to ppl whe you think r in trouble. try it out.
hope i helped:)
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I can just tell you right now to try to stay away from him as much as possible! But dont make it to obvious. If he cuts you with knives and stuff you need to tell someone! A teacher, a adult friend, a uncle or aunt, anyone. You should NOT have to go through any of this. You need to talk to your mom and tell her all of your feelings, because if you keep all of this inside you, you are going to lose it, and might even do something you will regret. Thanks for listening to me! And if you need any more advice, You can contact me! Im always here.
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hey, in my opinion this is serious. you need to tell the police or social services that your being abused and your mom too. social services has special programs and help where your mom gets help to get back on her feet. this is very serious if your brother is cutting you with knives!!! but for now you need to confide in the police and a friend and dont leave your mom behind if you think she is goin to get beat. also for future reference in any situation you need to stand up for your self. look people in the eye and talk in a stern dominant voice. and always keep eye contact dont look away because it show that you are scared. so please involve social services, the police, your school guidance counselor, and a very good friend who can help you and your mother.
I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!!!!
-Mr.Advice1120
p.s- pleez go to my column and update me on the news and you can leave questions to me because i am very concerned!!!
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