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Uhmm. Im me, not givin out my name because its pretty ordinary and i dont want anyone to know who i am lol anyway im 14..friends are life, but my bestfriend is the world idk what id do without her i tell her everything and she tells me everything..weve even been complimented on how great of friends we are by other people, theyve told us that they wish they had a relationship like that with their bestfriend. anywayz, i love sports cheerleading since 2nd 3rd grade? dont remember one of them but yeah and softball just recently started with it a couple years ago but i loveee loveee loveeeee it, more than cheerleading. uhmmm..what else? family? yeah mines huge and everyone backs everyone up i dont know how them people can disown their families and not talk to them for years its not like that i hve 4 brothers and 2 sisters, theres 7 of us. im the youngest and the oldest is 29 uhmm.. singing? its cool, i like it just dont LOVE it like some people uhh/ i have myspace..im on it constantly and aim also, if youd like to chat just ask me for my name and id be glad to =] k. thats about itttttt peace.♥
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I have white heads on my penis is this normal. (link)
im pretty sure its not normal.. maybe you should see a doctor or somthinggg uhmmm. anything else message me =]


I think I might be pregnant.. I had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom..about 2 weeks ago..He was supposed to pull out in time and he claims he did.. but "down there" was wet like "his stuff" was all over it... as if he pulled out as going ...!
I know this was a STUPID thing.. to not use a condom and whatnot.. but its too late.. and i want to know if you guys think im pregnant!?
Im like paranoid now.. and feel dizzy all the time.. ! My periods not supposed to come for a while either.. so I dont know.. plus, its realllly irregular and I dont even know when to expect it!
HELP!!! (link)
Ok you need to just calm down if you are all paranoid and stressed out your period will come later than usual or even later than its supposed to try not to think about it.. you are just noticing more things[dizzyness etc.] because you think you are pregnant.. if your really that worried maybe you should buy a preg. test if thats not possible then wait for your period and wait a little longer after that if your still worried tell someone or find a way to get a preg. test . . its normal for periods to be irregular so dont worry if it happens to come later than usual especially with all the paranoia. he probably did pull out as he was going which PROBABLY means some sperm did get in you. this yes, can cause you to be pregnant but you still have a good chance your not, just remember to calm down. hope i helped.. =]


hey guys! i`m not really sure the purpose fo me posting this but yeah.. i am a 15/f and a Christian. i met this guy at church about two and a half years ago. his name is nick. he is the sweetest lil kid. he is one year younger than me and really cute! now i know he doesn`t like me but the other niite he called me and we somehow got on the subject of masturbation and whether or not i thought it was riite or wrong. i told him i didn`t think that it was wrong or anything and it kinda escalated from there. he told me to go to my computer and he sent me some sites of porn and i really liked them. then last niite, we watched tons of law and order episodes together because it had chris meloni in it (one of the guys from the sit he sent me). and then i mastubrated with him on the fone several times and he was too. is this wrong? i really don`t know what my question is so any comments or thoughts would be helpful! (link)
wait wait wait
he masturbated or a GUY?
or.. what
if so, id watch out for that one and try to to fall for him or anything lol but if not then yeah u already had a sexual experience together whether you werent actually together or not you still did..so more stuff with probably happen now that you two are comfortable with eachother doing this. i wouldnt feel ashamed about it if i were you though. hope i helped =]


so ive been on my period for about..3 days now *first time* and it is getting heavier each day, or it seems to be. and i was wondering if that was normal and if there is anything else i need to know. thnks in advance :] (link)
yeahh. its deff. normal, the first days are the worst usually the 2nd and 3rd day are the worst for me then it should calm down a bit and not be so heavy.. thats how it is for me but everyone is different so i couldnt tell you exactly, dont be so worried its normal. hope i helped. =]


ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J. (link)
dont be so worried, its JUST a kiss. just calm down about it..and if hes really shy try yourself to be more open and talkative maybe that will make him open up more to you, just try to get to know him and if hes not kissing you, maybe try kissing him. it goes both ways =]


I just wanted to know.. is it unusual for a 15 year old guy to masterbate like 4 or 5 times a week?
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no its not unusual. . so dont worry bouttt itt =]
uhmmm. need anything else just askk hope i helped.


I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me


please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
i personally think that you are ready. i understand that you have been dating him for only a week but if you really feel that you like him and hes the one who want to loose your virginity to i say go for it..youve already had oral sex and no body knows about it from uk and oral sex is kind of the step right before sex. theres no real way to tell your ready or signs like that..you have to know and think about it dont get yourself so worked up about it. just dont be stupid and go and have unsafe sex, if your going to do it most likely no body is going to stop you so at least be protected. hopeee i helped =]


ok i have a question i like this kid him name is tanner and well we dated before but i just started talking to this new kid named phillip and he's so nice and all i don't know should i go for phillip who hasn't ever kissed a girl nor had sex before or tanner who left me for a girl he had sex with then called me back n made it seem like he only wanted sex?? please help (link)
ok. well since tanner has already had sex and done stuff and i understand you have tons of feelings for phill i say u give phil a shot he seems like a sweet guy and you n him havent even fought yet. your mama likes him, she hates tanner.. phils nice like to everyone your friends and such and you kno hes not just using you for sex unlike tanner who kind of told you that thats what he wanted you for.. so yeah follow my advice =] hope i helped "MYSTERY BITCH" =]


ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please (link)
i had the same problem before and if you need to talk then im here, you can message me anytime you'd like..but i really have nothing to say to you right now. just tell me what you need to know about it and what i did.


When you have sex for the first time on a scale of 1-10 how much did it hurt for you and was it really that pain ful ? (link)
uhmm..for me it was not painful like i couldnt take the pain but probably about a 7 on a scale 1-10 the 2nd and 3rd time shouldnt hurt though..so ive heard i just lost my virginity recently a couple weeks ago so i hope i helped..=]


hey. I'm 14/f. Me and my ex boyfriend had sex ,i thought it was a good idea at the time and i felt really comfortablewith doing it but now i don't think it was right. He dumped me the day after and i felt realy bad because i liked him alot but he obviously didn't like me. Now he is calling me horrible names and being really mean. All my friends are all acting wierd to me now and i don't know what to do.

If anyone has any advise it would be much apricated! xxx (link)
i think alone, and ask him why hes being such a you need to get him dickhead. totally flip out on him it was his decision to have sex also. not just yours so if he doesnt stop do it back, call him names also and tell him hes being really immature about this and he just needs to stop runnin his mouth as for your friends tell them to suck cock and stop being so stuck up, you cant change the past and if they have a problem with it then they can just get over it and u need new friends then. hope i helped even though i used some uh vulgar language lol =]


ok i am 14/f and my sister is 16 well i met this guy that i really like and i told my sister about it and well at first it was cool talking to her about it because she listened to what i had to say and didn't say anything to him about it but then i got grounded and wasn't able to hang out with my crush anymore or my friends so one dya they came over and asked for me and i was grounded so they decided to start hanging out with my sister then that same day i go and start babysitting for a friend and i stay there like one week and then i call my sister and guess what she is going out with my crush and i got so pissed but i told her i wasn't mad now my question is how do i get him to like me how he used to before him and my sister have sex (link)
if he liked you before theres a good chance he still does and is just using your sister but then again he could actually like her. but as for the gettin him to like you, if i were you when he came over to see your sister i would kind of hit on him and wear sexy things to make him want you to come around more often or maybe even make a move on your him while your sister leaves the room. afterall he was yours first. =]


how come it doesn't make a difference when a guy fingers me or not it doesn't feel good i don't feelanything it's like nothing's there...it doesn't make me horny or anything why is that ? (link)
dont ask me slutbag.
haha i would like to know the same thing

and if anybodys wondering this here is my bestfriend its ok for me to call her slutbag but if you do ill break ya fingers. =]




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