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first kiss troubles


Question Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 3:39 pm

ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J.


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MummuM answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:36 pm:
I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser (that's what everyone thinks when it comes to their first kiss), but really, that's all in your head.


I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.


Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)


Just make sure, you're 100% ready for this kiss and you're comfortable with this person. Your first kiss should always be special. If this is the guy you want to share your first kiss with, then go for it. ♥

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more_than_a_feeling answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 8:09 pm:
No one's first kiss is perfect. And I think it's supposed to be that way so don't worry about it.

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charli answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 6:20 pm:
Not a nice feeling lol :) The first kiss is also the scary one, however, it can be really special. If he is shy then you might have to make the first move but it will be worth it. Just remeber your not the only one who is scared because no doubt he will be nervous too. The best thing is just to go for it, that way its out of the way and it will improve your relationship. If your not ready though, then wait. If you are ready then just go for it and let it happen. You could also tell him that your nervous because that will aslo calm any nerves because he will probably admit he feels the same which will amke it more comfortable for both of you. Good luck and do let me no how things go :)

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Lucky answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 5:46 pm:
Dont be worried. Kinda let him do it, cause its your 1st 1.Hope all goes well!


~Lucky

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sml111992 answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 5:45 pm:
what you do is just take him and kiss him trust me kissing is no big deal its like riding a bike or having sex but i wouldnt know but it feel good when you actually like the person and you dont have to be like wikid too old to get a first kiss i know your dying to get yours am i rite? cuz i was and i was 13 this year when i got mine but trust me you will like it if you really like the person. but dont be nervous about it just be yourself and do it kiss him he wont care what you guys are doing if your talking to someone or i mean he is and you grab him and kiss him he wont care trust me!!!

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Speer82 answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 5:08 pm:
dont be so worried, its JUST a kiss. just calm down about it..and if hes really shy try yourself to be more open and talkative maybe that will make him open up more to you, just try to get to know him and if hes not kissing you, maybe try kissing him. it goes both ways =]

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