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i cant get over my ex boyfriend.
its been about a month or so since my boyfriend broke up with me. and that was like the 4th time we've been together and now he has a girlfriend. i just found that out the other day and when i heard he had a girlfriend, it made me cry.everyone keeps telling that i need to get over him and move on but i've been trying to do that for like 3 weeks now and we didnt really talk alot but the other day i went to my friends house and me and him started to talk again. and that was a big mistake cuz i was almost over him and now im starting to like him again.
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The best thing to do is IGNORE HIM & DON'T TALK TO HIM AGAIN. Yeah I know it's hard to get over someone but if you don't talk to him for awhile things will be better & you will be happier. If he even starts talking to you ignore him..it all just takes time.He might be trying to get you back by talking to you but don't fall for it. ♥
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I know exactly how you feel hun just ignore him. as hard as it may be its for your own good. then just pretty much forget about him& the fact that he even exists. then start looking for another guy and this time don't let your guard down. hope i helped need anything ask. kthxbye♥
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you'll get over him eventually. you're gonna look back on this a few years later and laugh. and now you know what NOT to do. lose contact with him for awhile.
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I know how you're feeling about this right now. I can't tell you how sorry I am that you found out that he's moved on with someone else.
The important thing is that you stop worrying about his life and take care of yourself. You are in a lot of pain right now and that's all what should matter right now.
You and this Ex broke up a month ago and you expect yourself to be over him by now? It could take way longer than that to truly get over someone you felt deeply about. Don't have high expectations for yourself about this. The only high expectation that you need to set is to cut off all contact with him. As hard as it sounds, you have to do it to start feeling better. The more you talk to him, the harder it will be to get over him.
I think it's great that you acknowledge the fact that talking to him was a big mistake. At least you can learn from it and start moving on again.
The best thing to do during a break-up is to keep yourself busy. It's ok to take a few days off and mope around, but watch TV if a friend isn't with you to mope with. That brings me to another best thing. Friends and family. There is no greater gift than having the support of your friends and family to talk to and help you get through this. Again, do not expect yourself to be over him ever. It can take up to a year to get over someone, but I can promise you that it gets easier day by day. Even if you are crying everyday over him. You are a baby step closer to getting through it.
-TheTeenGirl
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I wish there was an easy answer but there really isnt :( But i know exactly how you feel and it isnt easy at all. If you loved him then it will take longer than 3 weeks to get over him. If you think there is a chance it could work agin then you should try talking to him again, ask him how he feels about things, more to the point, how he feels about you. There must be something there as you keep going out so maybe his new girlfriend is just someone for him to be with since he hasnt got you. The thing that is making it harder for you to get over him is yopu wondering wether you could be together agin like before and if you find out that there isnt then it will help you move on, and if there is a chance you could then fight for what you want. Afterall 'All is fair in love and war' Let me know how things turn out, and i really hope that things get better for you. For the time being keep your chin up and show him what he is missing :) best of luck to you!!
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