I'm a skank without a God to tell me what to do. =)
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: July 18, 2006
Answers: 13
Last Update: July 29, 2006
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i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:
1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?
2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?
thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question. (link)
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Maybe the first girl never got your message. Keep trying. Anywhos, regarding your second scenario, I know that I get embarrassed when I stare at a guy and they catch me. She probably doesn't know you're attracted to her and is trying to avoid embarrassing herself.
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14/f. i really don't want to come off as full of myself or anything because i'm definitaly not. but i've kinda started to notice that a lot of guys stare at me (in a good way lol), or check me out. like at the beach two REALLY hot guys were checking me out (and its not like i have a really good body or anything like that). even my parents noticed them checking me out. and i've been noticing this going on a lot lately. but the problem is that nobody even notices me like that at school. i think it is because i'm shy.
so my question is...do you think that the guys at my school don't notice me like the other guys do because they actually know my personality and they know that i'm shy? if so, what can i do to get them to notice me like other guys do?
Thanks (link)
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I'm not sure what you're asking. Are you asking guys to be SHALLOW around you? The guys outside check you out because you're eye-appealing. The guys on the inside probably notice you as well but people are different in and out of school. If you want them to notice you, talk to them. And there is nothing wrong with being shy.
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Hi, i m 15 and I have never had a real bf. My freshman yr of high school was full of studying, tests, and not finding any time to really get a guy intersted in me. All through middle school I've always been that shy geeky smart girl that everybody either likes or dont have a problem with. I'm entering sophomore yr and wondering if its too late to change into the person that I want to be. Guys dont really look at me as a gf b/c i kinda get nervous around them and start acting silly/stupid in a way that seems funny to them even when im trying to "flirt". Can I get any advice on how to flirt in a way that seems like flirting in a guys view, and not just my view. (link)
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I don't think you need to flirt to get someone to like you. Why not just be yourself (or more so)? Flirting is basically doing things a guy can pick up on. But just try to be yourself, I guess, as corny as that may sound.
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Im 14yrs old almost 15 and my height is 5'1,and too small for my age{i know}.My weight is 121pounds and I think im fat !.I dont want to eat anymore because I dont wanna gain weight.I exercise 3 TO 4 TIMES a week but is not working plz help me! (link)
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Has anyone called you fat? Are you medically overweight? Are you going to reject the needs of your body? No, no, and definetely no. EAT. Your body needs nutrients, vitamins, protiens, etc. to even lose weight in the first place. And if you don't want to gain weight, eat the right foods. And what kind of exercise are you doing? And for how long? Because if you run for 5 minutes and eat cake right afterwards, it's not doing much.
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well im one of those girls who care about there weight 24-7! im so sick of feeling i have to be pretty,smart,athletic,and more improtanly SKINNY. sometimes when i see junk food its just there so why not eat it rite? ik its bad to eat it but it taste so good and i like it. then i do the worst thing ever look in the mirror and go gross im fat! it like duh you were just eating junk. so everytime i go to a party i go its just food think of it as garbage. doesnt work im also one of those people who like starve themselves and my friends know it because one time in school we were watching this movie that talked about crap like that and i looked so sad but i didnt care so they know! and well im 5'5 and like wiegh god who knows now probally still 123 and i dont like that if i ever get to 130 i will kill myself no like so what im trying to do is like l00se the pounds b4 november my next checkup so if i see a 130 something i will really no lie kill myself i dont like that so if you guys would help me any sugestions that would be great!! (link)
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you're well on your way to an eating disorder (that's not a good thing, hon). junk food is junk food. it happens. i know this is really out there but try being vegetarian or vegan for a month. i've heard alot of people do that. my friend lost 6 pounds. it eliminates alot of fatty foods and you always have to question whether something has any animal products. as for your weight, you have to understand that you're at a healthy weight. i used to be your weight as a shorty of 4'11". can you imagine that? ughh. if you do see that 130 on the scale, you have to realize that it is only 7 pounds! and you can lose it easily by hanging out and playing with your friends or just exercising/stretching.
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Dose anyone know any good healthy exercise to do to make my stomach flat(i dont wanna be completly skiny i just wanna lose some fat in my stomach) (link)
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situps and crunches don't do ANYTHING. it only builds muscle. you can't lose fat from just one particular area, fat can come off from anywhere. so just jump rope or powerwalk for 20 minutes everyday with a nice diet that is appropriate for you. you'll see fat come off everywhere. it's gonna be frustrating if you're expecting it to come off from just your stomach. however, once you lose the fat from your stomach, you can do those crunches and get abs. whoo. (:
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Every day I take a shower and wash my hair. After I get out I blow dry it, and then straighten my hair. But I just don't use any regular hair straightener I use an iron. Like a clothing iron. That gets my hair perfectly straight and I love it. The only thing is now that i'm doing it so long, my hair is flat, frizzy, and fried. I've tried other hair straighteners but they have made the situation worse, so I'm not willing to try another hair straightener. But I AM willing to use a shampoo, gloss, conditioner, hair spray, anything that makes my hair have way more volume/body but that doesn't make it greasy or look oily. Does anyone have any suggestions/advice. Thank-you sooooo much! (link)
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okay, get a hair cut because i can't even imagine how damaged your hair must be. next, go ahead and try out shampoos and conditioners whose sole purpose is to repair damaged hair. lay off the clothing iron. i know a girl who did that. regardless of her being hot, it don't matter anymore. now she scrunches her hair to cover up her yucky hair.
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ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say. (link)
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truth be told, you're not obligated to say anything. if you really like him, tell him that. don't word it all weird and whatnot. just say it. "I like you alotttt." there.
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what does it mean if someone tells u that u have the upperhand (link)
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you have more pros than cons. you have the advantage, basically.
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its been about a month or so since my boyfriend broke up with me. and that was like the 4th time we've been together and now he has a girlfriend. i just found that out the other day and when i heard he had a girlfriend, it made me cry.everyone keeps telling that i need to get over him and move on but i've been trying to do that for like 3 weeks now and we didnt really talk alot but the other day i went to my friends house and me and him started to talk again. and that was a big mistake cuz i was almost over him and now im starting to like him again. (link)
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you'll get over him eventually. you're gonna look back on this a few years later and laugh. and now you know what NOT to do. lose contact with him for awhile.
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Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him? (link)
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okay. i hate it when girls get offended when you ask/like someone they may like. she doesn't own him (and neither do you). so with that out of the way. it depends on what you want. if you know that he's going to ask you out pretty soon, then might as well wait. if you know he is reluctant, then why would you ask him out in the first place? he just told you his relationships aren't going so well.
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what does SHORTY mean (like lil shorty or something)
does it mean like literally short, or something else.. (link)
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ahahaha.
"yo shawty, you look' fiyuuuneee"
haha. it's like babe, except more, i don't know . . . ghetto-fied? hmm.
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i have known this guy for a couple years and we recently had sex for the first time we have done everything together from handwack to blowing and i was just wondering is he just using me or does he actually like me i cant tell because sometimes he acks like he likes me but sometimes he will just ignore me and i agree i am mean to him when hes mean to me but other than that we get along fine and flirt constantly i have dated him before but we just arent a good couple we fight alot and dont get along he made out with a friend of mine a few weeks back and it really ticked me off but i dont know what to do and i dont really know what my question is just someone please help!!
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Can you read that over and say "oh my goshh, he likes me"? Sounds like a friends with benefits relationship to me.
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