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"i love you"
ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say.
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the time will come that you'll both say it....but as for now, don't say it unless you really mean it because LOVE is a very powerful word.
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truth be told, you're not obligated to say anything. if you really like him, tell him that. don't word it all weird and whatnot. just say it. "I like you alotttt." there.
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i heart you thats an original it doesnt exactly mean it but it does do you know what i mean? well if you dont just ask and i will clear stuff up for you!
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haha when i`m on the phone with anybody i always cut the convo short and i`m like ok i`m gonna go, love ya. you`re not fully saying i love you but it`s a way to show i like you and care about you. ♥
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Babe,
You just started going out with this guy. If you don't love him, than dont say it! And if you do love him, then he's going to think youre psycho since you guys just started dating. I was with a girl for a while, and jokingly one night after talking for some odd 4 long hours, As I was saying bye,I said "I care about you." There is nothing wrong with CARING, right? "I care about you" doesnt carry all the weight and history an "I love you" does. You are just letting him know that you are developing feelings for him, not that you are crazyly obsessed. I would tell him "I care about you" when saying "good bye." Also, after telling my girl that, she started saying it back, next thing you know SHE confessed her love for me.
Good luck.
William
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Ok. I would suggest not saying 'I love you' unless you utterly mean it. There is nothing wrong with not saying anything after you get off the phone with your boyfriend. Just say goodnight and sweet dreams, and that should be the end of it. But I have the same problem with my boyfriend. We have just been dating for little less than two weeks and we dont say I love you yet either. A good alternitave to the words I love you would be to joke around with it.
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Dont sound too serious when you say something like, Love ya! In a girly voice. If you DO love him though, say I love you and I want you to know that. That way, the thought is 100% clear in his head. Hope I helped, and if you need anything else, just ask me in my inbox. I know lots about the subject of love. :]
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Say what you feel. Do you care about him? Tell him. Do you feel closer to him than anyone else? Tell him! Don't worry about feeling stupid, just say what's in your heart.
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i dunno if u speak speak spanish or not but you can say
"te quiero"
i mean, thers two ways of saying "i love you" in spanish
"te quiero" and "te amo"
but "te quiero" is like for anybody--- friends, family, and even romantic love but "te amo" is just for romantic love
hope i helped
good luck
*muaz*
xoxo
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You could always tell him he means so much to you. and can't imagine what you'd be doing without him :)
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