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Do girls hide their feelings form boys?
i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:
1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?
2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?
thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question.
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girls are girls. they have weird ways of showing there likness for a boy. have you tried talking to either one of them. maybe you should do that. take it from a girl. when i like a guy i kindof play hard to get add a little flirtness into it. if you really like one of these girls just say "hey. would you like to go out sometime so we can get to know eachother." dont sound like "hey wanna go out to dinner then after that make out in my car" no non
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Well all girls have crushes at times, but dont want to look dumb in front of their crush. and come out in the open about how they feel for that reason. Hope i helped! :]
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i'd say they're playing hard to get. the female mind is very complex. for instance, if a guy messaged me that i had feelings for, i would wait a while to message him back because i don't want to seem desperate. then again, i don't want to wait too long because that will make him think i'm not interested. basically, girls are really weird about stuff like that. but if you seem interested in her (but not enough to be stalkerish... see where i'm going with this?) then most likely she'll return the favor. ok, so in the first scenario i think that either she forgot about you (which is probably not likely if she kept checking you out) or is playing hard to get. there's nothing more "satisfying" than having a guy i like chase after me. then again, i have a lot of stalkers. in the second scenario, she likes you but doesn't want to seem obvious. i know because i do this all the time. anyway, go talk to her and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. either she'll pee her pants with excitement (excuse my crude examples) or she'll run away and think you're a stalker. but the chances of her running away are slim to none. go for it, dude.
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As for the first scenario it's most likely that she has forgotten about you since the girl liked you a whole lot.The second scenario is either she doesn't want to be too obvious or is playing hard to get.I remember that in one of my classes well in my freshman year she asked all the guys in my class who likes girls that play hard to get,all the guys raised their hands except one guy who was a player,I knew him he was nice to me so,and it shows that several guys don't like easy because it looks to them that she probably isn't decent.
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Maybe the first girl never got your message. Keep trying. Anywhos, regarding your second scenario, I know that I get embarrassed when I stare at a guy and they catch me. She probably doesn't know you're attracted to her and is trying to avoid embarrassing herself.
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For the second one I have no clue. But the first one I have a suggestion. Maybe shes shy and doesnt know how to tell you how she feels.
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yes girls do hide their feelings. most likely the second girl is shy and doesn't want to seem to obviously staring or anything like that.
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they are shy, they do hide feelings, and could be playing hard to get. you are not confused, you know what they are doing you just have to think of a way to get around their actions. with the girl who did not message you back, she was probaly supprised that you even messaged her, and she didn't know what to do. she does like you tho. the girl at the dance thing when you go pick up ur sis tryen to play hard to get. so if u want these girls go for em. so good luck, and don't worry so much i am sure you are a great guy and you can get alot of girls if you just follow your gut. :)
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All girls are different so i cant say yes they do hide there feelings. But maybe the first girl has just not yet seen your comment. I cant realy answer the is she desprate,hard to get, or look obvious because im not sure and i dont think its eather of those. For the second question the girl has eather just gaven up flirting with you because you havent tried to make a move yet so she maybe thinks your not interested. You have to remember some girls are shy so they might not make a move maybe just smile and hold a look with you for 30 seconds then turn. To find out the actual answer you will have to do something. Just aporch her and say hey whats up or Hey do i know you... Then see what happens from there if its a could convo then maybe she will give you her number or you can give yours. Hopefully you find out the actual answers and hope i helped !!
♥ jAcKiiE
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The first girl probably forgot about it. Maybe if she saw a picture, she would remember you. This one isn't too serious. And the second scenario. This girl was probably interested at first, but she probably never got to know you, so she lost interest. If you know someone is interested in meeting you, don't let them come over, because nine times out of ten they won't. You go over and meet them. Even if you want to meet someone, just do it! Rarely do these things happen by themselves. Hope I helped!
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Hey.
I have to be blunt with you. You cannot think that EVERY single girl who looks at you likes you!
I'm a girl so I know this... a girl will look at you sometimes if she thinks you're cute but that doesn't mean she wants to go out with you or MARRY you. You just have to know that girls send mixed thoughts. She may be playing hard to get. I don't know... but girls tend to lead guys on a lot... It's not very nice but they don't like being mean by giving you a dirty look or whatever.
I'm not saying she doesn't like you. She could, seriously. She could just be shy. Why don't you make a move on her? Go talk to HER. Girls don't like making the first move. There is ALWAYS a thought in EVERY girl's head saying, "What if he doesn't like me?" If she is looking at you like she wants you to talk to her, do so.
I have NEVER made a move on a guy. My point is you need to talk to her and do a little work. You can't expect her to read your mind. Inside, she's wondering if you even like her. If you do, show it. That's what every girl wants. If she doesn't like you, she'll usually tell you, unless she's just being nice.
I have no clue why girls are like this but they are. lol :-]]
But yea... Try talking to her. I'm sure she hasn't forgotten about YOU. If she has, remind her.
I hope I helped you in any way and if you need me to clarify anything else for you, just drop a message in my inbox.
♥ Kayla
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ok... well im 16 and a girl... and if you think these girls like you, talk to them, 99% of girls dont like to make the first move, they could be acting less interested so you become more interested... i no sounds stupid but thats an example of playing hard to get... my advice is talk to them more and then start to flirt more, but not too much unless you are for sure they like you, because girls like chalanges too, if you act toooo interested you might scare them off.
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