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hey. im sophia. let me tell you a little about myself. im fifteen years old. i have four brothers. my parents are still together. i love running && volleyball. i enjoy hanging out with friends, giving advice and being a kid.i
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i have a really bad phobia of brown recluse spiders. its getting to the point where i cant sleep at night, and im contstantly checking under chairs, under tables, on walls of smaller spaces, and on celings and corners of rooms when i walk in, and i always feel like somethings crawling on me. i feel like im going crazy, what can i do to get over this?? (link)
i know how you feel i am terrified of spiders and i think there crawling on me when im thinking of them. just try not to think of something else take your mind off of them


Sometimes when im alone in my room i will talk to myself..like its hard to explain but i talk to myself out loud..except i answer myself too..its like i work myself thru my problems by talking to myself..does anyone else do this? or is there something wrong with me? i feel stupid for doing it and if anyone were to ever hear me i would die but is it okay to do this? (link)
its completley fine. i do it all the time. if something is going wrong i'll talk to myself about it. its not adnormal at all. believe me half the population does it


I'm going to see an adolescent psychiatrist for the first time in about a week and I was wondering what I should expect. I'm going for depression and self-injury, if that makes a difference. I just wondering what I cn epect when I go there. Thanks so much. I'll rate high.
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i've been to one. Be prepared for them to tell you things that you dont want to here. most physchiatrists have problems of there own so they shouldn't be telling you whats wrong with you. i used to cut myself && when i went to the physchiatrist they told me "your just doing this for attention" which wasn't true at all. just be prepared. if you need to talk to an actual human being talk to me


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Okay so Idk what is wrong with me. Like Im convinced bad things are going to happen to me.
like when I'm 16 I cant get my license but i think to the future and picture myself getting into a car accident and like i actualy believe that this is going to happen to me.
And i read a story in seventeen magazine about a women getting murdered in her house and i think to myself oh that will prob. happen to me. like im convinced that something bad is going to happen. Like every bad situation I hear I make myself think its going to happen. Idk why but I dont think its healthy, and i freak myself out. Like I seriously think im going to prob. die in a car accident when i can drive.
please help! (link)
i know excatly how you feel. i always think something is bad is going to happen to me all the time. i always think im going to die the next day or get hit by a car or someone is going to kill me. dont let these things get to you if you worrie too much it can make you sick. think of the good things and try to do things to get these thoughts of your mind it might take a while but it will help.


16/f

okay i don't know what is happening. for the past week or 2 weeks i have been tired all the time. i can never feel awake for some reason and im always yawning. i sleep for about 10-11 hours each night and it doesnt help at all so maybe i'm oversleeping or something im not sure. i dont even usually do much during the day. any ideas for why im so tired all the time? (link)
this happens to me all the time. if you sleep to long it makes you more tired try to sleep the maximum 8 hours. the more you sleep the tired you get. it can also be little excersize try waking up and going for a jog it boosts up your energy level and burns calories as a bonus


i think my sibling may be bulimic. she has alot of the signs. i dont know how to confront her. or how to help her. im scared though.
any advice would be great. or anyone else who has been in the situation wanna share a story??? (link)
comfort her && talk to her about it say hey i've been noticing this...&& im wondering if your okay. then tell her she is beautiful the way she is


i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:

1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?

2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?

thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question. (link)
girls are girls. they have weird ways of showing there likness for a boy. have you tried talking to either one of them. maybe you should do that. take it from a girl. when i like a guy i kindof play hard to get add a little flirtness into it. if you really like one of these girls just say "hey. would you like to go out sometime so we can get to know eachother." dont sound like "hey wanna go out to dinner then after that make out in my car" no non


My long-term boyfriend & I have recently started having sex. He wasn't a virgin but I was (I'm 18, he's 19). The sex is getting better each time too. The thing is, sometimes he'll make a face or we'll like bump heads by accident & I'll think it's hilarious. He doesn't think so, and stays so serious. I would like to lighten the mood a bit and get him to loosen up even though sex is serious, but how do I go about doing that? (link)
try lighting candles && turning on music. or play a fun game. blind fold him or play a game with naughty dice. whip cream is always fun to ;] play more games


does anyone know where i can buy really cheap clothing (thats still cute), jewlery and handbags. i want to buy a wholeeee lot of stuff...so i am looking for really cheap things...maybe buying things in bulk kind of things

thanks in advance. (link)
try platos closet. they have really cute things && there very cheap. you could also try ragstock.com




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