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masturbating over the phone
hey guys! i`m not really sure the purpose fo me posting this but yeah.. i am a 15/f and a Christian. i met this guy at church about two and a half years ago. his name is nick. he is the sweetest lil kid. he is one year younger than me and really cute! now i know he doesn`t like me but the other niite he called me and we somehow got on the subject of masturbation and whether or not i thought it was riite or wrong. i told him i didn`t think that it was wrong or anything and it kinda escalated from there. he told me to go to my computer and he sent me some sites of porn and i really liked them. then last niite, we watched tons of law and order episodes together because it had chris meloni in it (one of the guys from the sit he sent me). and then i mastubrated with him on the fone several times and he was too. is this wrong? i really don`t know what my question is so any comments or thoughts would be helpful! <3
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Im 14 and a guy...and if i had a 15 yr old girl "masturbating over the phone" with me id be totally turned on..plus he probably enjoied it...:)
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no its not wrong. but be very careful, because a 14 yr old boy and a 15 yr old girl, can be very hard, you both shared a sexual moment together which may have an attach ment with feelings you no, but no one here is to judge you, i think its your choice,and you already did it, so there really is no reason to feel guilty,
well sweetheart i hope i helped,
-Anjelica
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wait wait wait
he masturbated or a GUY?
or.. what
if so, id watch out for that one and try to to fall for him or anything lol but if not then yeah u already had a sexual experience together whether you werent actually together or not you still did..so more stuff with probably happen now that you two are comfortable with eachother doing this. i wouldnt feel ashamed about it if i were you though. hope i helped =]
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Whether it's wrong or right is your decision to make. You already did it, so there's no sense in feeling guilty about it. But it's perfectly okay to be experimental with your sexuality. However, I think I would be wary of this guy. You like each other as friends right now, and shared a sexual experience together, but sooner or later your emotions will get mixed in. A fourteen-year-old boy is basically just a hormone bomb, and a fifteen-year-old girl is no better. Whether you do this again or not is entirely up to you, but just try to be careful.
-Lea
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Fatal is wrong. The bible specifically deals with sexual impurity, which is what phone sex is. So if you are mastubating and thinking about this guy then you are committing adultery. The only way that masturbation could not be a sin is if you did it with a perfectly blank mind, which no one has done in the history of the world.
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Alright, just so you know, *no where in the Bible does it say it's sinful to masturbate*, so don't worry about that. But masturbating on the phone is completely fine, as long as you're comfortable with it.
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In my opinion, it is wrong. Especially with you sayig that you are a christian. I am a christian also and I believe that one way to know whether this was write or wrong is to ask yourself, how would you feel if God was standing there in the room watching you. would it have been ok? That in religion does fall under the catagory of fornication. My advice is just be careful because you dont want to do something that you are later going to regret. And remeber our goals as christians are to try and please God in everything we do, and while we are not perfect and we all make mistakes it is our duty to learn from these mistakes.
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Hi, i suppose by masturbating on the phone he can't actually see you doing it. If however you make noises on the phone to masturbating will thats another story of it. As long as your quiet and just do it but without any noises then I fail to see why it's wrong. There is nothing wrong with masturbating anywhere as long as it is away from people and you keep it quiet (no sexual noises) then I suppose there isn't anything wrong with it. Daniel.
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If you think or feel that something was wrong with it then you wouldnt have did it and i really think from what i read that this boy really does like you you maturbation over the phone really doesnt happen if the boy doesnt like you oh and its called phone sex. I hope i helped;)
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Ok well this would only be wrong if you think it is. i guess its just a sexual thing between you and you boyfriend or friend or whatever. so this honey, would have to be you call.
hope im a help:)
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Its called "phone sex"
I personally don't think there is anything wronge with it. BUT, I have read that it is a sin to masturbate. I'm not really for sure though, some people say it is, others say its not. I'm not sure if the bible says anything about it.
I don't think I helped..but I hope I did.
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Hi, i think that it's perfectly fine for you to masterbate on the phone with someone. it's called phone sex. but dont worry you havent lost your virginty or anything liek that. but i think that there is nothing wrong with it.
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i think that it is wrong. however living here in the west most kids do it. but i think that it is wrong to do especially with someone else. i know it may sound stupid, but it is a true oppinion.
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ok well i dont know how to answer this really...but how do girls masturbate?but i can understand that you may have gotten a little horny but thats ok...of course its a hot guy.but i think that if you have the guts to pleaseure yourself you will have the guts to tell him how you feel.but have you done anything like that before with a guy.but have you ever kissed him because if you did that would be kinda awkward but i hope i helped and i really want feedback on you two!!
xoxo
meghan
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There is absolutley nothing wrong with what you are doing.
Its perfectly normal. Teenagers like to explore sex and masterbation in many different ways and this is one of them.
Your not harming anyone!
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I personally don't see what the big deal about it is as long as your not having sex. Your just horny teenagers. Yet, in the eyes of the Church they would say it is wrong. lol
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Are you guys cybering or actually masturbating over the phone? Anywhom, it's not wrong if you guys don't think it is. Many people do it and don't be ashamed of it. If you guys enjoy it, that's all that matters.
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