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Virginity
I really like this guy and I wanna have sex with him, only, I'm a virgin. I don't know how or what it's like and I'm really nervous. Any advice or tips or could any of you girls tell me what it's like to be layed? Anything will help. Thanx
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okay don't mind me but first of all it depends on your age cause if your younger then eighteen then you don't want to be having sex even though you want to. I have had sex and i'm only 14 but i regret every moment of it cause it could have screwed up every moment of my life and my firendships. it can ruin the relationship because all the guy wants might be sex and you don't wanna get hurt if he ends up breaking up with you after you guys have done that cause it will hurt so bad. i should know i went through the exact thing and it hurt me so bad to know that i did that with him and then he left me after he told me he loved me.
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Hi, first of all if your going to have sex then use a condom. Sex for the first time can feel a wee bit painful or sore. But usually it can be an enjoying and wonderful experience especially if it's with the right person. Im not a girl but I would probally imagine that it would feel good getting laid. Maybe you could try oral sex and your boyfriend could get a flavoured condom. But most of all you both need to be sure that this is what you both want and your ready to have fun. Never do something if your not sure. Daniel.
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Hi im Jessica ! ... while first of alll if you reallly like this guy and this is somthing you want to do not somthing this guy is pressuring you into doin then giver ! ... and yes every gurl is nervous the first time mostly about the pain ! ... while about that try to make sure that your on top cause you controll the speed and the depth and all that and its not that bad when your on top ! ... and just think eveyone eventually has to loose there virginity soo now its you turn ! and make sure you wear a condom no matter what if ur on birth controll still wear a condom ! .. i hope everthing works out for you for the best! :D hope i helped!!!
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make sure you really like this guy enough to be like I'm so glad I lost it to you like feelin no regrets like make sure that if you loose it he's not the type to spread it arpund to his friends... make sure he's always be there and he really cares about your body... you would have to love someone to feel special knowin the fact that that guy really did care about me also well hope I helped make the right decisions =)
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If you are nervous About having sex then you honesly are probly not ready to have sex.
You need to think about the Conseqences.(Sp?)
What if i get pregnant?
Will this guy stick around After the sex?
Do you like him or love him?
Is he the guy you want to lose your virginity too?
You need to ask yourself questions.
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well first off before you have sex with him answer these questions:
do you really love or just really like him?
are you ready to be a parent?
are you ready to commit?
is he the one you wanna share this with?
also think about the regrets of having sex unmarried and young. things like pregnacy which lead to money problems and difficult times with the family. you might as you get older regret having sex with someone you truly didn't love. think about all these things. don't settle for i like him and i'm ready to give it up. settle for i love him and he's the only one i want to give it to.
also if you must do it use a condom. i am really the type of person who is going to wait till married but some people aren't. see a gyno about birth control. talk to your parents about the possiblities.(you don't have to tell them your having sex but it might be easier for you to understand their points)
and if you need to talk to your friends because if they are true friends they will help you. if they aren't virgins they will give you tips that can be very useful.
make sure and ask him if he has any diseases or anything like that. after having sex check in with a gyno to discuss what happened as in if you have a disease because if found early enougha and treated properly you can survive STD's HIV's and other things of that matter♥
hope i helped
Cheyenne
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from a girl to a girl, "it" freaking rocks. I just recently lost mine, and actually, it didn't really hurt. You wanna know why? Because I heard that if you masturbate and get used to it, it doesn't really hurt when you actually try it...so i did it, and my first time rocked! And when you are "doing it", you might start shaking. just a warning. you can't control it, though. it's just because you're sooo excited...and you will feel absoulutely awesome. but you really should discuss it with that boy you like. use a condom. be safe. not stupid. oh, and read sex tips. it helps...TRUST ME. GOOD LUCK! x333
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Welp, you have to realize. It's probably gunna hurt. Although, on some girls it doesnt. Mine hurt ALOT. The pain was terrible, the reason was because i kept tensing up. And you have to RELAX! And make sure you have protection and all that. But i am sure you already know...
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Good luck
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