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I've fallen in love with a guy who's already got a girlfrein
I met this guy a few months ago and straight away we knew we were going to be really close mates. A month or two later he told me he loved me and that he knew he had a girlfriend and he loved her but he couldn't help loving me as well. Things happened anyway and a while later him and his girlfriend hit a rough patch and mutually split up (her idea) Anyway, he asked me out and we had an amazing few weeks, but after a long talk i realised he still loved her and told him i wanted him to be happy even if that meant losing him to her again. He is back with her now and we are still very close mates. .. But he is the only guy for me...I really think i am actually in love with him, but i want him to be happy! thats all i care about!
Please help me!
Lovesick Rock-chick
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this guy sounds confused and so do you
if you feel you have alot of potential with him, tell him
it's his choice hether to stcik with her or not
she obviously doesnt love him as much as you do
just tell him how you feel and he'll come through also
give him all of your feelings and you'll be less confused
it may be tough to, but if you love him, then it wont matter
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sandi74 is completely right he is using you as a doormat, and if he loved you so much why did he go right for his ex again? This guy is using you, everytime him and his girlfriend break up or fight he is gona come to you, and prob say* oh baby i missed you i really love you come here* and he will prob kiss you and all that... he is using you, and you are to good for that... hoepp i helped
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You've just given this guy permission to treat you as a doormat. As long as he knows you will be there waiting in the wings, he'll come in and out of your life as he pleases. If you're giving him 100%, why are you willing to accept just 50% from him? Sounds like a serious self esteem issue. Don't you feel like you're good enough and deserving of a man to love you and only you? You should. I say let him go! How great a guy can he be if he's cheated on his girlfriend with you?
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Awwww, that was so sweet of you to let the guy do that... even if you really liked him.
But it was pretty shallow of the guy to just go without even hesitating.
All I can say is not to break them up again. Just be really affectionate and sweet to this guy. Be good friends with him and one day, he might just go back to you. This guy is the one that's missing out on something good, so show him that!
Meanwhile, slowly try to move onto other guys. Flirt with others that seem interesting to you. You might never get back with this guy again, so try to get to other guys.
Good luck!!
-Jenny C
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