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this boy, he lives so far away, i only see him 3 times a year. winter break, a week in the summer, and spring break. well, this sunday im gnna see him for spring break. his family and my family are both going, and, were gonna be swimmin all day, and then its like fancy dinners at nights. and, i like him so much. how do i make him see this? without saying anything that has the word "like" or love in it. like i cant say "i like sombody" because i dont want to be that direct, i just want to hint it to him because he might have a girlfriend, and i dont want to look like an idiot. also, how can i flirt without being to direct? usually, i just smile a lot, and the boy will get it, but this boy isnt so much of a flirt. also, hes 14, almost 15, and im 13, almost 14, and so hes older, and thinks of me like younger. how can i show him that im a big girl? it helps that im taller then him, but just by a little. and he said "woah, are you wearing makeup?!" when i was. is this good that he noticed? because im such a girly girl, i wear makeup everywhere and im not going to stop for him, i just want to know if its a good thing or not. okay, thank you to anybody who took the time to read this, i know its obnoxiously long.
xoxo,
MMEE!!!
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first you should find out if he has a gf - cause you just need to move on if he does
also - this is going to be really hard because you almost never see him, so it would be impossible to have a relationship. since it sounds like wat you want is for him to be your bf, i think u shouldnt get your hopes up and try to find someone nearer to your location
but to directly answer your question about flirting and getting him to think of you as older, first dont worry about the makeup thing, but maybe try to make it look more natural. wear low cut tops or short skirts. think of interesting things to say, this generally will get him more interested than "flirting". the most important thing is to NOT act like your trying too hard...thats whats going to make him think of you as younger or older. its better if at the beggining of the visit u seem attractiv and interesting, but not neccesarly interested in him. that gives him time to get interested in you. then towards the end of his visit flirt obviously, maybe even make a move, so he knows your interested too.
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No, You dont liek him you ont know him, im sorry but liking someone you see only three times a year means you cant find anyone where you live and you should start trying to find some1 this is not healthy, but if you do not want to go by what i say at all simply go up and kiss him, Sorry if this sounds mean but its the truth
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Well you guys obviously have a lot of time. Maybe just be a little more touchy than normal and he will get the point. Compliment him on his clothes or something. As for how to flirt, just start making fun of him about something stupid and keep at it (like if you see him trip, or something about his body, make sure he's laughing though too). I would do some of this stuff now, but then I'd start talking to him on the phone or on messenger. If you guys already do that, DO IT MORE! My best relationship happened almost completely on MSN messenger. We talked 3 hours a day because she lived 300 miles away. Then when it came time for her to move to the same town as me, we were already pretty far into the relationship. I would try the same thing with this guy, so everytime you see each other again, you are already that far!
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