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Boyfriend=fighting
Hey, i really need some advice. me and my boyfriend and really serious and have been for a long time. we love eachother so much and plan on getting married someday. the only problem is we fight alot, and its becoming a problem. whenever i try to talk to him about it we just end up fighting more. we know he has depression but he wont talk to anyone about it which is also a problem. any advice on what to do? thank you
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Get someone else he's close to like his bestfriend, sibling, or even parent to talk to him about it. best bet sometimes guys lisen to the third person better. so just get for ex his bestfriend to talk to him about his depression then hopefully he'll do something about. i personally dont belive in councelling. i just think simple things like taking afternoon naps, changing diet, or just changing your lifestyle can help depression. maybe get him to join a gym,or even meditaion works. anyway hope this helped.
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you guys should sit down an talk to each other about it both the fighting, and his lack of communication, theres nothing wrong with aruging like cats an dogs, but it really helps for you both to agree that when aruging and angry, that your both willing to go the extra mile to get the fight over and still be together. remember that as long as you both love each other and want to still be together durring and after the fights, nothing is there to stop you. ive been with my husband since he was 15 years old and we STILL fuss alllll the time, but it helps that we both are very much in love and we both know it, so we agree to litterally never go to bed or seperate mad. this can cause some real problems in the sleep department occasionally, but wed both agree its worth it.as to his not talking about his depression, try disscussing with him, what would help you build the kind of trust in his eyes that he would need to be able to share his depression with you.in the mean time just try to be supportive depression is hard on te depressed and everyone that cares for them. good luck to you both.
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Hi,
Is nice to know that both of you are serious about each other… I mean fighting is part of life… “Fighting in terms of arguing that is” and I will tell u one thing for sure
When both of you get married the arguments will get worse each and everyday..
So while you have time sit with him and talk it through. Just make sure u get him in a good mood… at that time you might get a lot done… talk to him about what is making him so miserable..
Take care of your self and I wish you all the best of lucky!
Yours StarFire05
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Whether he wants it or not, he needs counseling.
If he doesn't open up to anyone then your relationship is going to have a lot of hardhips.
Communication is a very important element in a relationship, which is something you'll are lacking.
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