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Hi, everyone this is StarFire! I am new at this site… But I’ve given remarkable advices to so many people… I just hope that I can do the same for everyone here
Gender: Female
Member Since: January 18, 2006
Answers: 6
Last Update: January 25, 2006
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just courious,approximatly how long is beauty sleep supposed to last ? ;p,thanks
*rates to 5* (link)
Well… personally my beauty sleep takes about 9 to 10 hrs everyday! So
If u can get 7 hrs every day it should be fine.


I have been seeing this guy on and off for almost two years now. And I love him more then life itself, but when we are dating, I feel like I am supposed to be with him forever, kind of like being betrothed, where as I know I can never be with anyone else(torture). I want to be with him and only him, but I'm just not sure about my decisiion. I'm too young to be with him like this, I want to be able to explore and see the world before I settle down. I want to be free, I want to be able to live my life to the fullest before I become a 'house-wife.' And I feel like, if I screw up this chance now will he be around later?! I just don't know what to do. (link)
I understand we’re your coming from… because I’ve been in a situation like that.
But you have to understand… does This guy feel the same way you feel… does he love you more then life itself? Would he doing anything for you? (If I can that is)
If the answers to these questions are yes, then you found Mr. Right! Or prince charming!
& at this point there is no need for u to explore over seas! If this guy is everything you’ve ever wanted… Then stick with him! There might not be someone better waiting for u!
And make your judgment intelligently!
I hope it helps!
Give me a feedback!


ok there was this boy,
and he is my best friend's ex boyfriend.
but she still has feelings for him.
but he broke up with her.
but first time I saw him I had a crush on him too. I didnt tell my best friend, I couldent do that to her! but he had a football game and they won. my friend went to go to the rest room after the game. and I waited on the bentaches the the boy came up to me and sat by me. he said hi. I thought my friend would say it was ok just to have a confersation. then so we talked. the bathroom was like a couple minnets away. then right when my friend came she saw me and him holding hands!
she got mad but after a week she forgave me. that friday we were planning to go to a party. and he was there. soon my friend decided to leave but it was his house and he told me he had to show me somthing. I told him no beacuse of what happened. he talked me into it. then it was his room and you know what happened next yes we had sex.
but now at school I see him and he smiles. I hate keeping this from her.
I think he really likes me but so do i. but my friend will hate me!!!!! what do I do!!!!!!!?? (link)
Oops! You made a huge mistake… sleeping with your best friends ex… that’s like completely against the BESTFRIEND rules! But mistakes happen & we’re only human beings… I would suggest instead of feeling guilty… tell your best friend the truth… at least you own her that much… Friendship is something that is meant to be valued… so tell your best friend everything that happen between you and this guy… and if she’s a true friend she would understand with a kind heart. Just take the chance.
I hope everything works out for u!
and please tell me if my advice worked for u! plz i could use the feedback


is it wrong to date your ex's friend? (link)
Well… it all depends; you have to look or think out side the box as they say… what kind of friend is she, does she care or value your friendship?
At the same time if the answers to those questions are yes, then think about her reaction if you were to date her ex.
I would suggest you don’t date him…(because who knows you and your friend might lose what yall have) but if your friend is cool with it then go for it.


ok well theres this guy that goes to my school and i talk to him online sometimes but at school we never talk, only wen we say "hi" and thats it (im in 8th grade b.t.w) and yesterday i was flirtin with him and everything and everytime we talk we say were actually gonna talk at school but we never do, but the thing is, that i like him and i want to know if he likes me too. i have the same lunch as he does every day, if that helps, but i dont know if i should tell him that i like him. my friend says that he probably lyks me, but just because he flirts dont mean its true...so PLEASE help me with this. (link)
Wow! That’s a really tough situation to be in… but don’t fear starFire is here! Obviously the guy likes you! I mean most guys it takes quite some time for them to get in touch with their “inner feelings” but try to talk to him at school… have a conversation with him... and try to not be so obvious. If I guy likes you, you can definitely tell by the way he looks at you… So beware of the “eye”
I just hope my advice helps you!
Take care.



Hey, i really need some advice. me and my boyfriend and really serious and have been for a long time. we love eachother so much and plan on getting married someday. the only problem is we fight alot, and its becoming a problem. whenever i try to talk to him about it we just end up fighting more. we know he has depression but he wont talk to anyone about it which is also a problem. any advice on what to do? thank you (link)
Hi,
Is nice to know that both of you are serious about each other… I mean fighting is part of life… “Fighting in terms of arguing that is” and I will tell u one thing for sure
When both of you get married the arguments will get worse each and everyday..
So while you have time sit with him and talk it through. Just make sure u get him in a good mood… at that time you might get a lot done… talk to him about what is making him so miserable..
Take care of your self and I wish you all the best of lucky!
Yours StarFire05




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