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ive only been at this school for 2 months and i met a kid...and well we got to know each other real fast and then he askd me out..but my only problem was that i had feelings for another kid also at another school...i still do. my birthday is tomarrow. and there is rummors saying that he is planing to give me a present and ask me back out...i dont know what to do but thats not all..i just found out the other kid i like is also planning to ask me out.. how do i say no to the first one without being messed up.. (link)
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Say to the one guy "sorry, Not right now. Maby in the feautre." and go for the only you really like. But if that guy doesnt like you like that then go with the other one. Ok, and about messing things up, If the first guy like you as much as It seems he does he will wait for you to sort this out. If not, Hes not worth it.
GOOD LUCK!! -Lanie
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well, i went to my friends party and a guy asked me out there. i said i couldn't answer because i knew nothing about him. i thought he was hot, but i cant go out with a guy cuz of just that. hes ONE grade above me and goes to a different school. we talked a bit because he was trying to convince me to say yes. we have a lot of common intrests and i really do think he's sweet. i have his phone number, but i dont know if its worth it. he'd be in high school one year before me, and a different high school than mine too. i dont kknow if it would work. i couldnt see him at school and he'll probably forget about me anyways.. but still. should i call him back??? is it worth it???
-birdxhitsxwall (link)
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Give him a call!
the worse thing that could happen is him haning up on you. But most likly you wont see him again. before you two talk about getting together and going out why dont you talk to him and get to know him better. And if you like him then go for it. But if you dont, Hang up the phone. Also People say long term realosionships dont work out but the truth is they can! I am accualy going out with somone right now and he's in a diffrent school. So I try to see him as much as I can. Like on weekends we just recently went to a movie. Why dont you? and as for the older thing My parents are like 4 or 5 years appeart. Age/grade really dosent matter.
Good luck! -Lanie
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I really want to curl my hair (loose curls) but my hair is extremely strait and everytime i try to curl it it gets frizzy....anyone have any tips! please! (link)
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Umm...I dont know if your a girl or a boy laugh out loud sorry. so separte answers.
If your a girl-- Try a curling irron or better yet get it done at a malon! That will for sure work..
If your a boy---Umm...hmmm...Why dont you try to put gell in it. Then get one of those Men Curling things at target. For atleast 10 menneutes wet it and take it Out hopfully that works.
Hope you get your curls!
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hi, im 19 and my boyfriend asks me to sleep with him i hav but im really embarassed 2 make luv with him....... wat can i do?? (link)
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Do you want too?
know that first.
and remeber the bible, "never have sex before marrage." I dont know what you belive or if you have no belives in god at all but that is also somthing you should think about. If he's forcing you to do it then break up with him. Dont be affraid to say no. If he gets mad at you or somthing then he's not worth it. But if you do..Well I really dont have adivce on that part lol. GOOD LUCK ;-)
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ok theres this kid and we really flirt alot and well sometimes we flirt flirt if you catch my drift you know and well if we were ever together my family would kill me and him but i cant help who i like plus well i dont know if he likes me i asked him and he yea as a friend but that was over the summer and weve come along way since than and well he also acts sometimes like he likes me more than just a friend but than sometimes he doesnt i dont know what to do maybe hes scared but my friends and his friends tell me he likes me but i dont know what to do with the whole just as friends thing when all he does and all his actions says otherwise we havent done anything sexual but weve talked about it help me please (link)
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Hmm...Tough.
Somtimes when boys say they only like you as a friend you never know if thats the truth or not. He might like you more if you guys flirt aloand If you friends say he likes you Eather he does or they think you guys are such a cute couple you should be together. My adivce to you is play 20 questions on the phone or somthing. If he askes yopu somthing personal then it is 95% chance he like you. Espeshily if its about boyfriends or somthing into that. If he doent and he keeps quiet mabee he only likes u on a friend. (this game worked for alot of my friends to get guys to say things) and decide if you like him only as a friend or more. If you don things will get sticky. and you dont want that. If you choose to like him only as a friend avoid that game. but if you decide you like him more, Play it. Its very good at getting people to say what they want. If you want to be more done act like you only want to be friends. Next time you ask him if he likes you more and he says no or just as a friend studdy his face expression. and if you asks you dont be like hahaha NO! be like Umm..idk haha. That will give him the message.
Hope I helped! good luck! ;-)
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i like this boy and I think he likes me. like when we play dogde ball he tries to get me it or get me out.or when we play kick ball he always tries to get me out, but I went out with him before and now I'm scared he'll say no. and then tell everybody I asked. What should I do? (link)
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Everyone has been there before.
Well if thats the matter, then he likes you and if he tells everyone thats his fault he missed out on someone!
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i like this guy....(duuhh) ok uhh and we were pretty good friends but we had this fight(he told me he loved me and i acted kinda weird /mean) and he never talked to me since than! then i called him and appologized but he only was like:uhu yeah blablabla ok and i do like him and everytime i see him he lookes at me today he even smiled once but i thought that was just because he was laughing at a joke...and at the bus today he looked at me in a sad kinda way....and i wanna be friends again but im just scared that when i talk to him again he'll be like all weird again
so what should i say? and how should i act when he's weird?? does he still like me cause he also never talkes to me??
please help
i'll rate!!! (link)
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How do you feel about this?
If you really like him, like yo say mabey he noticed amd felt the same way.
But if you two ar'nt even going out and he says he loves you, to him what does love mean?
If it means I really really like you, to him he's crushing and he wants to know if you are back if it means I Like ya lots, It maybee mean Hey, should we go out? I should say this to gwet your attention or if he means I thibnk about you all the time. I will care for you guied for you and..ect. then He really has feelings for you. Have you seen signs that he likes you? All I'm saying is He might just say that to go out with you, dump you, and thats all, or you might be in a sittuation where cupid arrived my Advice is next time he says somthing like that, If you have feelings for him along time, you say you should go out but if not then take it slow. beacuse if not and rush into the I Love you stuff, soonmer or latter you/he will get dumped and hearts will be broken so watch your step
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yeah, i know... i really regreted it.. and i'm really sad and mad at the same time, i shouldn't do that.. he has a gf and i don't want the same thing to happen to me.. i do believe in karma that's whay i don't do things that will hurt feelings of other people, but i dunno what the hell came into my mind to do things like this.. I really want to forget it but i don't know how... (link)
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I am kind of confussed.
so you just dont want to do things?
b/c A girl named kamra has a bf?
ok I will go with that.
(if I'm whrong whrite me again)
well it sounds like you are under depresssion.
many girls feel like this often.
If you dont want to hurt kamra's feelings then dont but If it doesent help, then tell you how you feel I am sure she will understand. b/c if you did the things You feel like and said you will do it can cause alote of truble.
here go on my website. I will try to help you.
http://www.freewebs.com/lanie_the_advicer/
then it will say cant find it but under that there is a link.
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I think Well I know I love this one guy from school. I don't know what to do. I've been writing him notes(but i don't tell him it's me)and like he's only writen back once and he thought it was my friend. I want him to know that I like him. I've liked him since like EVER! I mean the day I saw him in 4th grade I like fell inlove!
Help me Please!
Signed,
Luv Struck. (link)
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iT DEPENDS
Whats his personality?
You cant keep it bottled up forever, peek at him when he looks at your notes, if he smiles. He likes you Girl! if not, then he might be grouchy and at that moment you might not like him anymore anyway
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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox (link)
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ok seriously!
I get frustrated with people like you.
not to be mean or anything but does it really matter?
I mean you could go a whole day and only like 3 or 4 people would say you look good. so your just waisting your time! god didnt make you so you can mess up the wounderfull face that only you can have. and why would you want to pluck your eyebrows? it would hurt you and trust me my sister did it she looked uuuuuhgly! does it really matter? be yourself. go to a store with no makeup and all and they will treat you the same just like every good liking people in this world!
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I'm 18 year old and a tourism student.. I met this guy who's the same course as me when we went on tour last week. He's really flirtatious, he has a girlfriend but he still flirted with my bestfriend because he thought that i'm snobbish.. But we talk with each other once in a while.. But at the end of the tour, he sat beside me on the bus.. He slept on my lap, held my hands etc. He started flirting with me.. He didn't mind that the friends of his girlfriend were also there.. Foolish of me, I flirted back.. I gave him my number.. After few hours, he called me and picked me up in my house to go to his house.. That's the time he told me that i'm the one he likes, but he first flirted with my bestfriend because she already smiled at him but I didn't.. I mean, why should i smile with him? I didn't even know him.. We drank some beers, and because i was tired because of the tour, i just slept in his house.. And we had sex..(i just know him 4 3 days before we did it)
Yeah i'm stupid because at the first place, he has a gf, we don't love each other but i do like him because he was sweet.. On the next day, i visited him in his house and it happened again.. He told me not to go there without telling him because maybe his gf is also there. My friend told me that he likes me the way he treated me and he protects me.. like he holds my hand, he holds me when we needed to cross the street, feed me, and something like that.. That made me really like him..
But, when we saw each other at school again after like 2 days, he ignored me.. I don't know what to think.. He didn't even came to me, he just smiled a bit, that's all.. What should i think now? He doesn't call me anymore.. Did he realized that he really love his gf or he just wanted me for sex? (link)
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omg! that gut is so stupid for doing that to you!
anyways this is not your falt. from what I hear he is just using you for sex
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