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I'm 18 year old and a tourism student.. I met this guy who's the same course as me when we went on tour last week. He's really flirtatious, he has a girlfriend but he still flirted with my bestfriend because he thought that i'm snobbish.. But we talk with each other once in a while.. But at the end of the tour, he sat beside me on the bus.. He slept on my lap, held my hands etc. He started flirting with me.. He didn't mind that the friends of his girlfriend were also there.. Foolish of me, I flirted back.. I gave him my number.. After few hours, he called me and picked me up in my house to go to his house.. That's the time he told me that i'm the one he likes, but he first flirted with my bestfriend because she already smiled at him but I didn't.. I mean, why should i smile with him? I didn't even know him.. We drank some beers, and because i was tired because of the tour, i just slept in his house.. And we had sex..(i just know him 4 3 days before we did it)
Yeah i'm stupid because at the first place, he has a gf, we don't love each other but i do like him because he was sweet.. On the next day, i visited him in his house and it happened again.. He told me not to go there without telling him because maybe his gf is also there. My friend told me that he likes me the way he treated me and he protects me.. like he holds my hand, he holds me when we needed to cross the street, feed me, and something like that.. That made me really like him..
But, when we saw each other at school again after like 2 days, he ignored me.. I don't know what to think.. He didn't even came to me, he just smiled a bit, that's all.. What should i think now? He doesn't call me anymore.. Did he realized that he really love his gf or he just wanted me for sex?
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I will tell you something that you dont want to hear but its the truth. first of all this guy is what you call a 'PLAYER' plain and simple. he has a girlfriend yet he flirts openly, and holds hands with other girls??? also he acts like the sweetest guy when he's with you by holding your hand when walking, feeding you ect... but then tells you not to go to his house when his girlfriends is there, come on thats a red flag right there that he's just playing you. the sad thing is you fell for it cause he got want he was after in the end and that was sex. now he's ignoring you, and you might feel a little hurt cause of it I just hope you didn't lose your virginity to him cause when it's a girls first time It can be very emotional, you need to understand how worthless this guy is. I bet you this guy doesn't even love his own girl, which begs the question why is she still with him if he's so flirty with other girls? well any way what you need to do is ignore this guy back, don't smile at him any more, don't even make eye contact. you should act like you don't care. Move on and start being around other guys. Since you had sex with this guy there a good chance he'll feel a little jealous if he sees you with other guys but serves him right for being such a jerk. Any way never have sex with him again it will just be another mistake guys like him don't learn the true meaning of love and relationship until there grey and old.
Good luck!
syireen
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omg! that gut is so stupid for doing that to you!
anyways this is not your falt. from what I hear he is just using you for sex
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Damn how naive can you possibly be?
The fact that you slept this guy after knowing him for 4 days leads me to believe that you are used to being treated this way. I dont mean to be rude but holy shit, where in all of this, did common sense step in?. Lets see, he has a girlfriend, flirted with your friend, and then had sex with you. Girls like you make it easier for guys like me and obviously the one that made a fool out of you to satisfy our dirty selfs. Did you honestly think he liked you?. The dude had a girlfriend, i mean come on that should have been your very first clue that he was a no good son of a bitch looking for an easy pece of ass..Lucky for him, he knew just were to look. Its kinda sad when i hear or see girls alowing themselves to be used and degraded, damn woman you make it so easy for the guys.
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Im afraid he just abused you. That bastard just cares about sex I dont even think he feels anything to his girlfriend. Id sterilize him if I could. Im sorry ...
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im very sorry, but it sounds like it was just sex. dont be sad tho, its pretty clear hes not the type of guy youd want a real thing with,he has no respect for his relationships.
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